Just finished all 2 sections of my ADHD Snapshot and realized something. The experience revealed that abandoning personal goals is not laziness, but a deep grief for self-worth, and that the fight for focus is an exhausting, invisible war often misinterpreted as a lack of effort. Furthermore, the cycle of shame is rooted in a nervous system dysfunction rather than a knowledge gap, highlighting a stubborn, ongoing resilience.

Why do eyebrows appear to become sparse and lighter in colour after menopause? Also I used to have thick hair on my head and now it seems very fine. Is there anything that can help please?

📅 Daily Check-in - June 1, 2026 💭 Reflection: "Well since the last check in I very nearly threw my course work away by failing a test. Why? Because I went into the test dysregulated which spiralled and on one question, I had the right answer but hit the wrong letter! Before I knew it, I finished the test with a fail. I was visibly upset as failure was never an option for me. I don't recall failing at anything before so this was unchartered territory. The boys came and sat beside me and through their encouragement, made me take the resit - my last chance - if I fail this - I fail the course. They encouraged me through it and in doing so, they co-regulated with me. This time I nailed it with 100% - phew! Suffice to say - I didn't do any study today - that was enough trauma for one day! Time for bed now - good night from a wind battered, rain sodden part of New Zealand - just hope there's no flooding overnight - wouldn't that be hilarious!" 📊 Wellbeing Scores: ⚡ Energy: 4/10 🎯 Focus: 4/10 🔥 Motivation: 4/10 ⭐ Average: 4/10 ✅ Activities from yesterday: 💧 Stayed Hydrated 🥗 Healthy Eating 🍺 No Alcohol ☕ No Late Caffeine 🥩 Hit Protein Goal 🥦 Ate Vegetables 🍳 Home Cooked Meal 🎓 Online Course

I've been a little absent from posting and commenting here the past couple of weeks because some really stressful things have been going on. But I've been trying to keep up with the program and work on my Rocks, even if it doesn't feel like I've made enough progress yet. One of my Rocks is clutter, and getting myself to START is the hard part. Unless I have a deadline, it's really tough for me to get things done. I think this ties into being a Sacral Generator (according to Sage), which means I need something to respond to. So even though I honestly didn't get the concept of body doubling at first (how would working at the same time as someone else actually help me?), I decided to try it yesterday. I did 2 sessions... and the first one inspired me to keep going afterward, so I worked on the clutter almost right up until the second session! What a difference it made. If I'd been on my own schedule, I would have found a hundred other things to do. But something about being accountable to other people really works for me. Have you tried body doubling yet? What was your experience? Were you skeptical at first like me, or did you dive right in? I'd love to hear what worked (or didn't) for you!