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Welcome to ADHD Harmony. I'm excited you're here. This community helps you turn ADHD from something you fight against into your greatest advantage. No quick fixes or productivity hacks that fall apart after a week. This is identity-level transformation, grounded in neuroscience and real experience. The next free 5-day challenge starts April 27. Before it begins, watch the short videos that explain the community and how Skool works (about 20 minutes). 👉 Click here to dive in
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When I arrived in this program, I was running on fumes.
Burnout had crept into every corner of my life, and I was standing at a career crossroads with no clarity, no energy, and no real sense of who I was anymore. On top of that, I’d been navigating some really challenging relationships — the kind built on conditional love, conditional acceptance, conditional belonging - with rules. The kind where you slowly shrink yourself to keep the peace. Without the tools Jim teaches, I honestly think I would have kept disappearing into those patterns. The Identity Transformation work hit me harder than I expected.The Ikigai work so far..... has cracked something open. The Emotional Mastery sessions… they gave me language and structure for things I’ve carried for decades. Since starting Jim’s 5‑Day Challenge and now moving through the deeper program, the shifts have been profound. I’m making decisions that honour me. I’m reconnecting with the parts of myself I thought I’d lost. I’m seeing my strengths clearly instead of obsessing over my flaws and perceived (ie not real) limitations. The six week transformation is my launch pad, it was a big financial decision to join it, but I am now feeling more hope with clearer understanding of me - as a late diagnosed (50 yrs + 1 Decade) lady, it can be easy to fall into the despair of "if I only knew then, what I know now" and think it is too late, I shall just carry on - with struggling through - but this program has renergised me for my next stage of life. @Jim Ebbelaar the future is bright, and thanks for all the hard work, you've put into this program - you will make a difference to many. This program arrived at exactly the right moment — right when I needed a lifeline, right when I was about to give up on myself again.
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When I joined this community I hadn't even had a job and my housing was unstable. Right before the 5-day challenge, I got hired, but work was making me miserable and I was barely able to walk once I got home from an 8 hour shift and I couldn't even handle 2 days in a row. Now, week 4 into the 6 week program, I've got 2 jobs, can work 8 hours a day all 7 days of the week and still move around the house if I need to and sometimes even still have enough energy left to do some light cleaning. I'm so much further than I thought possible for me
Somatic Stress Release: Three Gentle Exercises
Somatic Stress Release: Three Gentle Exercises 1. Knees bent, gentle hip lift and drop On your back, knees bent, feet on the floor. You slowly raise your hips a few inches and let them drop back down. Not a thrust. Not a bridge. Just a soft lift and a surrender back to gravity. This creates a passive lengthening and a rebound through the psoas, sending a clear signal to the nervous system that it can discharge without effort. The drop is the important part. That’s where the letting go happens. Do it for one minute and resist the urge to “do” anything more. 2. Legs flat, gentle side-to-side jiggle Still on your back, legs long and relaxed. You softly jiggle the legs side to side, letting the movement ripple up through the hips and into the low spine. This oscillation interrupts holding patterns and invites involuntary release. Think soothing, not shaking. This is vagal tone work as much as it is muscular. The psoas begins to soften when it senses rhythm without demand. One minute is enough if you’re actually letting the legs be loose. 3. Legs straight, tapping the big toes together On your back, legs straight, you gently tap the big toes together and apart. Small movement. Almost boring. That subtle midline activation engages the deep hip flexors without triggering defense. It brings the nervous system into coherence and encourages bilateral release through the psoas. People often feel warmth, tingling, or a deep exhale here. Again, one minute. No strain. Done daily, these work because they retrain the baseline. You’re teaching the psoas that release is safe and familiar. Over time, the muscle stops gripping preemptively. The nervous system spends less energy on background vigilance. Breath deepens, sleep improves, emotional reactivity drops. These exercises are a form of Somatic Stress Release (often associated with TRE or "Tension & Trauma Releasing Exercises") specifically designed to target the psoas muscle and the autonomic nervous system. While traditional stretching tries to "pull" a muscle long, these movements use oscillation and micro-movements to convince the brain that the muscle can safely stop "guarding."
A more balanced life
📅 Daily Check-in - April 8, 2026 💭 Reflection: "Daily exercises outside alome at sunrise are giving me a balanced way to start the day - as much as going to bed at around 9,30 pm and without using the mobile or laptop for around 1 hour. I feel so much more balanced. " 📊 Wellbeing Scores: 😊 Happiness: 8/10 ⚡ Energy: 8/10 🎯 Focus: 8/10 😌 Calmness: 8/10 🌙 Sleep Quality: 8/10 🔥 Motivation: 8/10 ⭐ Average: 8/10 ✅ Activities from yesterday: 🚿 Cold Shower 🛏️ Good Sleep 🌙 Early Bedtime ☀️ Morning Sunlight 🌬️ Breathwork 🌿 Grounding 🌃 No Screentime at Night 💪 Workout 🏃 Cardio 🏋️ Strength Training 🤸 Stretching 🥗 Healthy Eating 🍺 No Alcohol ☕ No Late Caffeine 💊 Took Supplements 🥩 Hit Protein Goal 🥦 Ate Vegetables 🍳 Home Cooked Meal 🧘‍♂️ Meditation 🙏 Prayer 📝 Journaling 💚 Gratitude Practice 🎯 Visualization 🛋️ Therapy Session 😌 Low Stress Day ✨ Positive Mindset 📵 No Social Media 📧 Inbox Zero 📋 Planned Day 🌅 Focused Morning 🌄 No Screentime in Morning ⏱️ Time Blocking 1️⃣ Single Tasking 📅 No Meetings 📚 Reading 🧠 Learning 🎓 Online Course 🎸 Skill Practice 🎨 Creative Work 👥 Quality Time 🤝 Helped Someone 📞 Called Friend/Family 🍽️ No Phone at Dinner 👂 Active Listening
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