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May 28th: Live with Marcelo — The Niche Fragrance Collector! 🎙️
Gents, this one's for the fragrance lovers (and anyone who wants to start smelling like a man with taste). We've got Marcelo — The Niche Fragrance Collector — joining us for our May 28th LIVE call! This Aussie has built a serious following exploring niche perfumery from across the world, meeting the perfumers behind the craft, and championing the underappreciated art of "smelling." He doesn't just chase the next bottle to buy — he digs into the artistry, the notes, and the creativity behind every great scent. Whether you're new to fragrance or you've already got a shelf full of bottles, this is going to be a fun, eye-opening conversation packed with value. Come learn how to think about scent the way a real collector does! 📅 The Details - When: Thursday, May 28th - Time: 5:00 PM – 6:00 PM Central US - Meeting Link: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/calendar?eid=c855a172c1bf4f8cb5c5db9717d0d45c Drop your fragrance questions in the comments below — favorite notes, what you're looking to find next, or anything you've always wanted to ask a true collector. I want to make sure we cover what matters most to YOU. Let's pack this call and show Marcelo what this community is all about. See you! 🚀✨
May 28th: Live with Marcelo — The Niche Fragrance Collector! 🎙️
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RMRS Weekly Member Shoutouts 👏
Gents, a few posts stood out this week for driving great conversation, consistency, and community energy. 1. @Chad Smith Post: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/two-terrific-things Big shoutout to Chad for sharing a real-life style win tied to work, personal development, and everyday confidence. His post about using his professional development benefit toward a leather laptop briefcase — and getting noticed for his flat cap — is exactly the kind of practical “style in real life” moment that helps other men connect the dots. 2. @Brian McGuire Post: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/fabric-function-fit Shoutout to Brian for adding depth to the conversation around RMRS' Style Pyramid. His reflection on fabric, function, fit, and decades of classic menswear experience brought real substance to the group and gave members something useful to think about beyond just outfit photos. 3. @Darren Poesel Post: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/date-night-bfc95545 Big shoutout to Darren for the date night post. Linen on linen, thoughtful details, and dressing well for his wife after 30 years — that is a strong reminder that style is not just about looking sharp, it is about showing respect for the people and moments that matter. 4. @Mitch Hoover Post: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/elevating-even-when-its-a-challenge Shoutout to Mitch for showing how to keep elevating your style even when the setting is not ideal. His post had personality, humor, and practical context — a good reminder that dressing intentionally does not require perfect conditions. 5. @Dr. Jason Cole Post: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/ootd-cw-19-may-2026
RMRS Weekly Member Shoutouts 👏
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This Stops Being About Clothes
There's a shift that happens for some men. They stop asking "does this look okay?" and start knowing. Not because they memorized rules — but because they've built a standard for themselves. A quiet confidence that doesn't need to announce itself. You see it in how they walk into a room. In how people respond to them before they say a word. In how much mental energy they have left for things that actually matter. That's not style. That's identity. And identity isn't bought — it's built, through consistent habits and deliberate choices made over time. That's what RMRS Premium is designed for. Not trends. Not outfit grids. A structured path to becoming the man who looks sharp because of who he is — not what he's wearing. If that shift sounds like something you want, the door's open: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/plans
This Stops Being About Clothes
From Worn to Worthy: Restoring Heritage Footwear with Patina, Precision, and Purpose
For me, shoe restoration has never been about simply making an old pair look presentable again. It is about preserving craftsmanship from an era when shoes were built with integrity, recraftability, and character. In a world increasingly driven by disposable fashion, I’ve developed a deep appreciation for restoring legacy footwear — shoes that still possess exceptional leather quality, strong structural foundations, and the unmistakable soul that only time and wear can create. Much of my work has centered around heritage American and European footwear, including vintage Allen Edmonds wingtips, bicycle toes, and custom patina projects, along with refined European styles from Mezlan, including woven oxfords and other classic dress silhouettes. Many of these pairs arrived heavily neglected: dried and oxidized uppers, uneven factory finishes, deep creasing, dulled welts, faded color transitions, and years of embedded contamination that muted the natural beauty of the leather. Beneath all of that wear, though, there was still life in the shoes — and that is what I’m always trying to uncover. My restoration process begins with deep leather cleaning and decontamination using saddle soap, leather cleansers, and controlled stripping agents such as acetone or professional deglazers to remove failing finishes, wax buildup, silicones, and surface contaminants. I approach this carefully because the goal is never to aggressively strip the leather, but to reveal its natural character while preserving its integrity. Once stripped, the leather is slowly rehydrated and nourished using products such as Saphir Renovateur, Venetian Shoe Cream, and penetrating conditioners designed to restore flexibility, richness, and depth back into tired calfskin. I allow the leather time to absorb and stabilize before moving into color work. Leather responds best when it’s treated patiently. The artistic process begins with custom patina development. Rather than applying flat, uniform color, I build depth through layered dye applications using alcohol-based dyes, creams, and tonal blending techniques that create movement and transparency across the upper. My work consistently gravitates toward rich cognacs, museum browns, tobacco undertones, espresso burnishing, and antiqued transitions that give the shoes an old-world European character without looking artificial or overdone.
From Worn to Worthy: Restoring Heritage Footwear with Patina, Precision, and Purpose
OOTD-CW - 19 May 2026
CW = critiques welcome! Lots going on today including several vendor meetings. The real fun is tonight when my eldest son has his final banquet for track and field during high school. He's taken home rookie of the year and 2 MVPs, so we are hoping for the sweep this year! Use a suit to allow me to take off the jacket as needed. However, I am also wearing sleeve garters for the first time (and the one pick shows it's still a learning process!). Finally, every now and then I put in CPW metrics for the wardrobe items used and I've got those here today. Some area excellent and some need work, but Tuesdays always ensure the app selects from 1-5 items with the worst CPW to help spread the use around my wardrobe. • Suit — SJ-013, SL-022 (Mantoni) | CPW: $44.00 + $24.83 = $68.83. A light gray Mantoni windowpane suit in lightweight airy wool, featuring a bold pattern scale with navy and light-blue paneling. The jacket offers slight padding at the shoulders, a notched lapel, and a clean 80% lining. The matching trousers feature high-rise construction with belt and suspender anchors, delivering a modern business-classic silhouette that's breathable enough for late-spring weather while maintaining unmistakable formality. • Shirt — DS-040 (Charles Tyrwhitt) | CPW: $7.11. A CT slim-fit Non-Iron Twill dress shirt in crisp white with French cuffs. Constructed from 2-ply cotton with a classic point collar and rounded French cuffs, this shirt provides the perfect canvas for a patterned tie. The adjustable French cuffs allow for precise cufflink placement, while the soft hand and non-iron finish ensure all-day sharpness. • Undershirt — US-003 (Pro Club) | CPW: $0.49. A heavyweight white cotton crew-neck undershirt from Pro Club. The medium-to-heavy drape ensures no show-through under the opaque twill dress shirt while providing solid moisture absorption throughout the workday. • Tie — NT-047 (Charles Tyrwhitt) | CPW: $32.50. A pink silk necktie with dark pink accents and navy polka dots, finished with a hand-finished 3-fold construction. At 3.25" width and 58.5" length, it pairs beautifully with the gray windowpane suit, adding a pop of color while maintaining business-formal decorum. The pattern scale creates visual interest without overwhelming the suit's bold windowpane.
OOTD-CW - 19 May 2026
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