Hey everyone, I need some advice on developing a more authoritative appearance now that I've joined the management of the building I live in. Currently, I'm just known as the tech guy with dogs who wears faded black Fruit of the Loom t-shirts and black jogging pants - not exactly commanding respect. Following earlier advice from this community, I've started building a countryside look with a Barbour shirt that I plan to pair with military Bundeswehr pants, a vest, and Lowa GTX Renegade Mid boots. I'll definitely share photos once everything arrives. Here's where I need your input: I'm trying to understand what truly creates an authoritative presence in daily situations. I've been considering three different style archetypes. First, there's the classic English countryside gentleman - trustworthy and refined. Second, there's the Gabriel character from Mission Impossible with his minimalist military aesthetic - few colors but strong contrasts, projecting a silent show of force. Third, there's Negan from The Walking Dead, whose authority comes from bold, slightly unhinged charisma. Each represents a different approach to authority: the nice guy everyone trusts, the silent strength, and the loud commanding presence. I'm looking for real-world advice on what actually works when you need to be taken seriously without appearing like someone who can't say no or gets pushed around. What style have you found most effective for establishing respect in a building management position?

Yesterday, my absolutely adorable bride and I marked our glorious 28th wedding anniversary with a day of pure bliss! We kicked things off with a leisurely jaunt to the Signor Vineyard—because who doesn’t love sipping wine like royalty?—followed by a chuckle-worthy stop at the Fat Ass Vineyard and Brewery (yes, the name alone was worth the trip!). We capped off the evening with a swoon-worthy outdoor dinner by the water, where the ambiance was as lovely as my better half. I’m one ridiculously blessed fella—28 years and still head over heels!

OK, so by introducing yourself you are guaranteed to get to level 2 - it's really that easy and I LOVE learning more about the cool people in this group. Feel free to share where you're from, why you're here, what you do for a living, and what you like about style. Are you a watch guy, suit guy, fragrance guy, or maybe just getting started? Have fun here!

Gents - Fall weather has always been unpredictable: 45°F morning, 70°F afternoon. The safe play? Layers you can peel off. But here's what nobody talks about - you'll look like you're doing a strip show all day, carrying jackets around like your mom packed your bag. The bold move? Pick your temperature and own it. Freeze for style or sweat for comfort. Your choice reveals whether you dress for confidence or convenience. Don't forget to defend to defend your answer in the comments! Vote below: 👇

Just relaxing with my grandson.