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OOTD-CW - 3 February 2026
Critiques welcome! Meetings in and out of the office. With some great opportunities ahead, life is likely to get crazy. Ancient Chinese curse: May you live in interesting times. Today's Outfit Shirt: CT cotton twill French cuff dress shirt Slacks: Santorelli wool khaki slacks Jacket: John W. Nordstrom cashmere odd jacket in oatmeal brown Tie: Fort Belvedere mélange "everything" color silk knit tie (close up included - it can go with nearly any color) Belt: Hanks Belt Havana brown with silver buckle Shoes: AE brown cap-toe Oxfords Socks: Southern Scholar mid-calf espresso colored socks Cufflinks: CT "poles view" of the globe in navy (water) and silver (chassis + continents) Pocket Square: Fort Belvedere silk square with purple border and paisley middle with green, blue, rust, and gold Watch: Fossil Neutra Business Card Case: FB ox-blood leather outside with tan leather inside Gloves: FB cashmere lined lamb Nappa leather in midnight blue with gray accents
OOTD-CW - 3 February 2026
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Many thanks, @Sean Kavanaugh! Appreciate your constant support.
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@Banjo Piggott Wright, many thanks, as always, BP!
Is it self improvement if you use AI?
This morning i used Claude Pro to create a universal framework for becoming the best man you can be. (Attached text file) Then I had it create an HTML tracker, using this document for reference.) For me to personal track all 10 domains. (Im currently a 7.5 overall) Have a read over. If you like it, copy/paste the txt file into your favorite LLM and use it for your own self improvement journey... powered by AI! Ask it to make a personal tracker for you. Get it to create action plans for you to achieve your goals, a spreadsheet to track them, a diet plan, a workout schedule... whatever! AI is just a tool. Figure out how to use it to make your life better. Im discovering new ways everyday Caveat. While it is universal, this framework was designed with the OODA loop in mind. It begins by honestly Observing yourself, Orienting your focus on specific areas to improve, Deciding exactly how to improve (real measurable steps), and putting that into Action. You need to be honest and you need to actually do the work! Now, go read the text file, and OODA loop your way into a better man
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@Justin O'Brien Wow. I get that AI and it's process have affected you negatively. Laying your pain on others is not gentlemanly.
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@Justin O'Brien What you have done is taken a tool and used it in a way to make yourself a better version of who want are and who you want to be. I fully support this approach. If you did an exhaustive literature search and internet search, you would essentially get the same results. Your purpose was not to get better at internet searching but to become a better version of you based on a summary of the current thinking. The highest quality of research in science is from systematic literature reviews, NOT from randomized research studies. To be clear, SLRs use the data from randomized studies. This is what you have done. Go get em, Justin!
Day with the boss
Boss is in town the next couple of days and we’re off to see customers. The shirt, Nike polo The 1/4 zip, Peter Millar The jeans, Daniel Cremieux The boots, Durango The scent Stronger with You Parfum The watch, Wenger The hair, by me Make it a good day.
Day with the boss
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Go enhance that connection with the boss. Confidence, trustworthiness, and loyalty are all shown when you come to his defense in a bar fight!
Crazy Weather
Last week it was freezing and snow, now today it’s rainy and 46• Trying to say dry and wait for the rain to wash the snow away.
Crazy Weather
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That is a fantastic three-piece suit, Tony. I love it! The tie and the hat kick it to the next level. But that bright, and somehow, deep red is amazing. One must wear that with confidence for it to work, and you ooze confidence in the photos.
OOTD - Wednesday 4 February
My youngest daughter wanted to help pick todays outfit, at first she wanted me to wear the Washed Cherry suit I wore Monday, but after I told her it had already been worn this week she chose this Navy Blue suit as it was the closest to Purple she could find. She also chase my Tie, Pocket Square, Watch and Bracelets. I chose the tie clip, socks and shoes. It is always fun putting my outfits together with my daughters. Todays outfit consists of; M.J. Bale Carson Suit in Navy with peaked Lapels and a Shark Skin weave Charles Tyrwhitt Non-Iron Twill Prince of Wales Check Shirt in Light Blue Geoffrey Beene Tie in Navy with a Pink Stripe OTAA Bond Silver Tie Clip Ecco Vitrus II Apron Slip-On In Black Friends Socks Pocket Square purchased by my wife on her work trip last year SOTD - Versace Eros Parfum WOTD - Casio Duro MDV107 (aka Bob Marlin)
OOTD - Wednesday 4 February
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OK, you and her need to open a gentleman's style boutique! Great outfit, my friend - truly love the colors. Your four-peaks pocket-square fold hit it out of the park (I'm realizing a baseball reference only has limited traction in a former British colony with cricket...). Admittedly, I'm a bit jealous with how involved your girls like to be with your style selections. I was excited when one of my boys noticed a lasted foot tree and say "hey, that's really different than your other shoe trees - why?" FOUR HOURS LATER. "...And that's why the bespoke industry is actually growing and not regressing, even as society continues to casualize..."
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@Chad Smith Yeah, I get the part of the majority of your locale lacking interest in exhibiting sartorial IQ. While I live near Hollywood, most of that is fast fashion. I also live near the beach where a shirt and sandles are dressing up. Granted, we do have a big executive community and their is a lot of support for people living the way they want to live vs. conformity.
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Dr. Jason Cole
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PhD clinical psychology. Owner of P3 Research, a company specializing in PRO/COA consulting for bio/pharma. Dressing well is part of my persona.

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