Good morning gentlemen, We have had discussions on reaching out to help and lead others to becoming gentlemen. I know many of us have that mindset that “how can I lead when I am not there yet?” But what better example than for others to see your growth first hand? Sure you’re going to make mistakes but for someone to not only see you make that mistake but to take ownership and correct it, is more of an example than anyone can imagine. Letting a person see you as human, foul able, and take ownership then see you correct it, is the mark a leader and a gentleman. Another aspect of leading by example that we all as men and humans fall short of is listening completely. We all think that we do; reality, when you look back at previous conversations that you had you will find that at some point during that person talking you stopped listing and started thinking, formulating your response or your story, or both. When take the time and fully engage in what the other person is saying, we need to give our full attention to them put away our phones, face them directly, make eye contact, and give undivided attention. Also be honest and share your experiences, your success and your failures, this lets them know that you are not perfect, you understand their plight, and you can relate to their struggles and challenges. Don’t be afraid to say you do not know, many of times people will ask me something and I am the first to say I do not know, but I will make every effort to get the answer to their questions. Here are some key points that might help you when giving pointers to someone starting out. 1. Learn to control your emotions 2. Stand your ground, even when you stand alone. 3. Build a mindset so strong, no insult can shake it. 4. Walk away from people who drain your energy. 5. Never beg for attention, you’re undeniable 6. Protect your peace like it’s your last asset. 7. Speak only when your words hold weight. 8. Work like you’re broke, even when you’re rich. Gentlemen, we can make a difference in the lives of people around us and encourage and inspire young men to become gentlemen.

This is a dress shirt with character: pink puppytooth pattern in a Winchester format. My wife called it the boy/girl outfit because it has pink and blue throughout. Sure! Today's outfit: Dress shirt: Savile Row Co - twill puppytooth pattern in pink color within a Winchester format Matching suit jacket & slacks: Peter Millar 2-button single-breaster wool Tie: Fort Belvedere wool challis navy tie with white polka-dots (I believe the Brits refer to this as London dots given the small white dots on a dark background) Belt: Milorde navy leather belt Shoes: Stacey Adams navy cap-toe Oxfords Socks: Ruby color with white pattern from Southern Scholar Cufflinks: Mother of pearl tabs atop silver ovals (unknown maker) Pocket Square: Fort Belvedere white linen square with hand-stitched Xs on the edge in navy Pen: Mont Blanc 047 black with platinum metals Watch: Fossil Neutra Quartz 44mm with cream back, silver hardware, and dark brown leather strap

Out to dinner on the east side with clients. . . . Ermenegildo Zegna plum silk and cashmere blazer; Brioni purple and green pocket square; Apposta olive green button-up cotton poplin shirt; natural blue-green jade cufflinks; Brioni black wool trousers; Trafalgar black silk suspenders; Southern Scholar calf-length green patterned socks; A. Testoni cap-toe Oxford leather shoes; Apple Watch Hermès Series 10 with Grand H stainless steel watch band; Polo Ralph Lauren black leather and wool gloves; Hermès cashmere and silk scarf; Loro Piana wool greatcoat over it all.

Another day at the office in NYC — finally starting to warm up a bit . . . Tom Ford gray and black wool sport coat; Hermès orange pocket square; Apposta white cotton broadcloth button-up shirt; Ralph Lauren Purple Label black wool cardigan; Luca Faloni black cotton chinos; rafalgar black silk suspenders; Orvis black merino wool crew socks; Santoni dark gray Chukka boots; Apple Watch Hermès Series 10 with Grand H stainless steel watch band; Polo Ralph Lauren black leather and wool gloves; Irish black tweed flat cap from Hanna Hats of Donegal; Italian oil scarf; Loro Piana wool greatcoat over it all.