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HOW IT WORKS - READ THIS FIRST
Ever wonder how you can let people know about your Skool community? Feel like you have so much to offer but don't know how to get people involved? Wish there was somewhere you were actually allowed to promote yourself and talk about your offer? Look no further! The Skool Classifieds are the place where you are not only allowed to promote yourself, but you are actually encouraged to do so! Like the Classifieds section of your local newspaper or the Community Message Board at the gym, this is the place to let people know what you do and what you offer. Here's how it works: 1. Invite other Skoolers you know to join the group using your invite link. The more people join, the more people there are to promote to! 2. You can post once a day only. This is to keep the group from getting spammy. If it's spammy, people won't read and you won't get noticed. Post as many days in a row as you want, but please do not post the same thing day after day - mix it up! 3. Make sure you add your post to the appropriate group/heading. Please see below for a description of what each group is for. If you don't see a group that is appropriate, message me. 4. Self-Promotion is what this group is all about, but please do not DM people with your offers. You will be removed from the group for doing this. 5. Introduce yourself in this thread, and then scroll up and find someone you have something in common with. Reach out. There are some really amazing people here! 😉 This is a place for us to support each other for our mutual benefit. Hate speech, offensive language, or general negativity will be deleted, and you will be removed from the group. *Please check out this post for more tips on how to get great results from your posts. And also this post by one of our own community members who has had great success growing his group through the CLASSIFIEDS. To learn How to Make Your Classifeds' Posts Work Harder for You, check out this masterclass by one of our moderators, @Faith Adebayo
HOW IT WORKS - READ THIS FIRST
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The CLASSIFIEDS Premium Tier - Everything You Need to Know!
If you are already on the Premium tier and want to know how to make the most of it, or are thinking about upgrading, here is everything you need to know... ⭐️ 🗞️ In the Standard tier, you can post in the community once a day in any category (except for days with a hashtag prompt, then you get an extra post!). There are two kinds of acceptable community posts: "anything" promoting your Skool group, or offers that are free (freebies, free workshops, podcast promotions, your own YouTube channel promotions). You can see the list of categories in the How It Works pinned post. These "rules" are for both standard and premium members. 🌟 🗞️ Now for the additional benefits for Premium members ($3/month or $33/year) 1. Premium members are allowed to put an "ad" in the classroom to advertise anything they want - free or paid. The ad stays up for as long as they are a premium member. Ads rotate weekly. 📰 You can place your ad by creating a draft course in your own community and then copying the course key and sending it to me to copy into the Classifieds. Course keys can be found by going to the thumbnail of the course in your classroom and clicking on the three dots in the top right corner. 2. Premium members also have access to all live events on the calendar. This includes meetups twice a month (called the PERSONALS) and open drop-ins once a month. 📆 The meetups are structured and focus on improving your visibility as well as helping you make connections and foster collaboration. 3. Premium members also have the opportunity to host their own free masterclass for all members on the CLASSIFIEDS calendar. This gives you the chance to provide value to the members and then pitch your group or product at the end. 💵 In order to qualify to host a masterclass, you have to first take my How to Teach a High-Value, High-Converting Masterclass workshop ($27). The next one is being offered on May 12 with doors opening for registration May 9th.. After taking the prerequisite workshop, the first masterclass you offer is of no charge. Subsequent masterclasses that you would like to offer will be subject to a $10 administrative fee.
The CLASSIFIEDS Premium Tier - Everything You Need to Know!
Why your clients lose focus (and the Science to fix it)
Have you ever got a client super excited on a call, only for them to do nothing by the next session? It’s frustrating. It's confusing. And it happens because of the Matchstick Myth. When we rely purely on motivation, we are lighting a matchstick. It is a bright, hot flash of energy 🔥 But if you have 𝐧𝐨𝐭 helped the client build any logs in their fireplace (real-world reward systems), that fire goes out quickly. The solution is not more motivation. It's better science. 📢 People we support get stuck because of their own stories... One of the biggest barriers isn't a lack of motivation; it's that the person is completely trapped inside language. They’ve convinced themselves a story they are telling is 100% true. 🟠 In the behavioural science behind REWIRE, this is called: 𝙁𝙪𝙨𝙞𝙤𝙣. Fusion is when a person’s identity becomes completely tangled up with a thought. Your first job as a coach is NOT to look for character flaws. It's to Recognise the Fusion. This is the very first step, the 'R' of REWIRE: R = Recognise the Fusion. Here's what it sounds like: - The Identity Trap: "I am a procrastinator." They've fused their sense of self to a negative label, making change feel impossible. - The Emotion Trap: "I am anxious." They've fused their "self" with a feeling, believing they cannot act until the feeling goes away. ✅ As a REWIRE Coach remember: 𝙇𝙖𝙣𝙜𝙪𝙖𝙜𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙞𝙣𝙩𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣. Your goal is 𝘯𝘰𝘵 to fight the "bad" thoughts. It's to change the relationship your client has with them. We help them see that the "anxious" thought or the "procrastinator" label is just a passenger on their bus. The passenger might be shouting, but your client is still the driver. This shift moves the problem from being internal ("I'm broken") to an external thing they can manage. When you listen to your clients, which "I am..." labels do you find they are most stuck on? Is it - an identity ("I am a perfectionist") or - an emotional state ("I am overwhelmed")?  Drop your thoughts below 👇
Why your clients lose focus (and the Science to fix it)
Stop shouting at the plant: Why 'willpower' is not the problem
What do you do when a client knows exactly what they need to do... but still avoids doing it? Many of us were taught to look at a lack of willpower or a bad mindset. But the best coaches intuitively know that if a plant in a greenhouse is failing to grow, you don't shout at it to "try harder." 🌻 You check the soil, the water, and the temperature. When a client is stuck, it's almost never an effort problem. It's an environmental problem. This brings us to the second step of REWIRE: Expose the Frame. Exposing the Frame means finding the hidden logic that's secretly running your client's life. Here are two common "Frames" I see all the time: 😨 The Stress Trigger - Think of an email inbox. It's just a neutral list of text. - But for someone who has accidentally linked their inbox to angry clients or unexpected bills, that list feels like a threat. - Their brain changes the meaning of the little email icon, turning it into a danger signal. (In behavioural science, this is called Transformation of Stimulus Function). - They're not avoiding the work. They're avoiding the very real internal stress response the work triggers. (In REWIRE, running from your own internal discomfort is called Experiential Avoidance). 🪤 The Guilt Trap - Many high-achievers are trapped in a cycle where they only work to please an inner critic or to avoid feeling guilty.  - Their "motivation" is actually just fear of getting in trouble.  - This guarantees they will burn out or crash the moment nobody is watching. (In the REWIRE, we identify this as Pliance, the name for a specific type of rule-following). As a coach your job is to expose these hidden frames for your client. Once you show them that their avoidance is a completely logical, predictable response to their environment, the shame disappears. They stop seeing themselves as a "lazy procrastinator" and start seeing the real enemy: a faulty frame. This is the first 'E' in REWIRE: E = Expose the Frame. What are the most common "stress triggers" you see in your daily lives?
Stop shouting at the plant: Why 'willpower' is not the problem
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