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Helping parents of sensitive & neurodivergent children see beneath behaviour, release repeating patterns & create more calm, clarity & connection.

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Are you tired of trying to source authenticity?
Same pictures recycled all over the internet. Vintage and Antique ephemera. Free to use in any creative project you have in mind. Print on demand T-shirts, coffee mugs, and posters. This is a wonderland for junk journals! Use the vintage images to create funny greeting cards, emojis, and GIFs. I will be adding content for the rest of my life! Muscle car ads? I got you. Vintage Fashion? It's here! Black & White Photos? Yep, got that too! Vintage greeting cards? So many! Even entire publications...cover to cover! So many postcards! Weird stuff and oddities. Public domain books coming that you can republish and make some cash. One is actually being scanned today. Clean it up with whatever tool works best for you and voila! I look forward to seeing you there! https://www.skool.com/retro-riches-archive-1520
Are you tired of trying to source authenticity?
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@Julianne Anderson yes but what a wonderland 🐰🌻
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@Julianne Anderson sounds fun 😁
💥 Well… the first one is officially taken...
The first 🧱Built From Experience feature inside ISC has been filled. 💙 And I love what that represents. Not theory. Not “one day.” Not another idea sitting in a notebook. 𝗦𝗼𝗺𝗲𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗹. 𝗕𝘂𝗶𝗹𝘁 𝗯𝘆 𝗮 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗹 𝘄𝗼𝗺𝗮𝗻 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗼𝘄𝗻 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲. That is what I want this wall to become: a place where women can get their work seen and where other women can look around and realise: “𝗧𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝘀𝗼 𝗺𝗮𝗻𝘆 𝘄𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗜 𝗮𝗹𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗱𝘆 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄.” The first feature is in. Now I cannot wait to see what gets added next. 👀 👉 Come have a look inside Identity Shift Circle
💥 Well… the first one is officially taken...
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What if the trigger isn’t really about this moment?
Have you ever been surprised by how strongly you react to something your child does? Maybe they refuse to get dressed. Ignore you. Shout. Push back. Have another meltdown over something that seems tiny. And suddenly your reaction feels almost as big as theirs. Sometimes I think we are too quick to assume: “I’m just stressed because of what my child is doing.” But what if the moment is also touching something older in us? A fear of losing control. A feeling of being ignored. The belief that we should be coping better. An old sense of not being good enough. A fear about our child’s future. That doesn’t mean every reaction comes from our past. But when the same emotional charge keeps appearing in the same kinds of situations, I think it is worth getting curious. Maybe the question isn’t only: “Why is my child reacting like this?” Maybe there is another one: “Why does this particular moment have so much power over me?” That is the kind of deeper conversation we explore inside the free Energy-Wise Parenting Hub
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What if the trigger isn’t really about this moment?
Behaviour may be the signal, not the whole story
A child explodes over the wrong cup. Refuses school. Falls apart when the screen goes off. Suddenly won’t cooperate. Or holds everything together all day… and completely unravels at home. It is so easy to make the visible behaviour the whole problem. - How do I stop this? - How do I get them to listen? - What consequence should I use? - What am I doing wrong? But what if the behaviour is giving us information rather than simply giving us a problem to solve? What if there is more happening underneath the moment than either the parent OR the child can easily explain? That is one of the foundations of my work: Behaviour is the visible signal, not necessarily the whole story. I’m especially interested in the emotional connection happening underneath the words - what the child may be experiencing, what the parent may be carrying, and what has become active in the shared family space. Not as another reason to blame parents. As another place to become curious. If you’ve ever sensed that there is “something more” going on with your child than the behaviour everyone else sees, you’ll probably understand why I created the Energy-Wise Parenting Hub. You’re welcome to come explore it with us.
Behaviour may be the signal, not the whole story
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@Julianne Anderson enjoy when you do. It's wonderful 😊
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@Julianne Anderson 💯 agree. A new level of loving ❤️
Your reaction may be telling you something too
We spend a lot of time trying to understand why a child is triggered. But here’s another question: What gets triggered in YOU when your child reacts? Is it fear? Embarrassment? Anger? That sinking feeling that you’ve failed again? The desperate need to make the behaviour stop? Sometimes the most valuable information in a difficult parenting moment isn’t only in the child’s reaction. It’s in what suddenly becomes active inside us too. Because when an old fear, guilt, pressure or pattern gets activated, we can find ourselves reacting from it before we’ve even realised what happened. That doesn’t make you a bad parent. But it does give you somewhere different to look. Instead of only asking: “How do I manage my child’s behaviour?” we can also ask: “What am I carrying into this moment that may need understanding or release?” That question is becoming a big part of the conversations happening inside my Energy-Wise Parenting Hub. If it makes you curious, you’re very welcome to come and have a look.
Your reaction may be telling you something too
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@Des Dreckett yes, it do great to have the engagement with others.
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@Areatae Mcghee wonderful look forward to seeing you around 😀
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I help parents of HS, ADHD, Neurodivergent kids go from exhaustive reactive survival patterns to calm, connected, energy-aware parenting.

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