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My Reflection…to this point
When I started the first 5 Day challenge, I wasn't sure I'd finish it. When I started again, I wasn't sure what would be different. Turns out, a lot… The biggest shift isn't the habits I’ve built. It's my identity. I used to call myself a starter who didn't finish. I don't say that anymore. Not because I've forced myself into being someone different... but because the evidence has piled up to the point where I can't honestly say it anymore. What the evidence looks like: - Sleep. My big rock. A regular bedtime has given me 2 extra hours a night on average. That single commitment has changed everything downstream. - Email Inboxes. 4 cleared to zero unread. Around 22,000 emails deleted. And I'm maintaining them. - Planning. Every single day. Haven't missed one yet. I don't always finish the list, but I come back the next morning with direction and purpose. - Celebrating. I'm writing wins on post-it notes for myself and sharing them in here without feeling like I'm bragging. That's new. That's huge for me. - Gamifying. I've stopped fighting it and accepted it... my brain loves a scoreboard. So I'm building that in on purpose now. - Discernment. I'm using AI to question myself before I jump at the next shiny opportunity. Sticking with what I've already said matters. What Jim's content has taught me so far: ✅Consistency over perfection. The "never miss twice" rule has rewired how I relate to slipping into procrastination. I still drift but I come back. THAT is the win. ✅Self-binding through environment, not willpower. The bedtime works because I designed it. The inboxes stay clear because I built a rhythm, not necessarily because I'm disciplined. ✅Identity through evidence. Every post-it note is proof. Every morning I return to my planner is proof. The voice that used to say you never finish things is still there... it's just quieter. Because the evidence stopped agreeing with it. The win I didn't expect: This is the exact transformation I want for my clients. I had to walk this journey myself first to truly know it. That's not a side benefit. That actually might be the whole point.
My Reflection…to this point
Curiosity doesn’t always kill the cat
If you could borrow one ADHD-friendly habit from another person in this group, what would it be? Maybe it’s consistency. Maybe it’s organization. Maybe it’s exercise. Maybe it’s remembering where they put their keys. What would you choose? For me it would be organization and exercise. I’m not good at either of them.
What’s one piece of ADHD advice that everyone seems to love… but just never worked for you?
I’ll go first. For me, it was “Just use a planner.” I’ve bought planners.Cute planners.Expensive planners.Colorful pens and stickers to go with them. 😂 The problem wasn’t buying the planner… It was remembering to actually open it. I’m curious… What’s one ADHD tip that never really worked for you?
Day 2! Better late than never
Section 2 of the Awakening Assessment just showed me that the "mess" and curiosity I loved as a kid became the exact things I learned to hide behind perfectionism and overachieving. Turns out the version of me trying to prove I'm not a failure and the version that just wants to celebrate brushing my teeth are the same person. It’s okay to be me and I’m still the same as I was. Anyone who doesn’t like me doesn’t have to be part of my life!
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