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Day 1: Challenge Kick-off is happening in 3 days
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🚨 3 days left, are you ready? Everything you need to know
Alright, lovely ADHD Harmony fam, we’ll soon be kicking off the third edition of the 5-day ADHD Harmony Challenge. This challenge has already transformed the lives of over a thousand people. For some it's about the tiny shifts, for others it completely changed their lives. Are you ready? Let us know by taking the poll below. 1) Watch the short welcome & introduction videos so you're set up from day one 2) Optionally grab your AI Snapshot to go even deeper during the challenge (but you can absolutely start without it) 3) Make sure to add all sessions to your calendar and set reminders Let's do this. 🙌
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🚨 3 days left, are you ready? Everything you need to know
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A New Chapter Begins…
Today was the last session of the 6-week transformation program. Everyone shared their amazing and inspiring testimonials. I cried here and there. Deep down I knew I wanted to share my experience, but the old version of me was in the back of my mind trying to make me feel like I wasn’t safe to share. It was the fear that I wouldn’t know what to say. Or the fear that my words wouldn’t matter. That I wouldn’t matter. But I decided to choose the new me. The one that felt broken on day 1 but is now empowered and transformed. And so I spoke up. I didn’t think I would break down in tears. And I don’t mean 1 or 2 tears. I’m talking about ugly crying. On camera. Putting my entire heart out there for everyone to see and feel. But that is exactly what I needed in that moment. To release the part of me that no longer belonged in this timeline. And I’m just so grateful for that moment for everyone who showed their support in that deeply vulnerable and emotional moment. I’m so grateful to have been able to enroll in this program when I thought it wasn’t possible. The universe made it happen because it was truly meant for me. And I showed up. Every day. And there were times that I didn’t do a check-in, or I didn’t do my workout, or didn’t wash the dishes. But what I learned is that it’s not about being perfect every day. It’s all about coming back stronger and never giving up on yourself. I’ve experienced so many transformations throughout this 7 weeks (5-day challenge + 6-week program). I’ve become more self-aware. I learned things about myself that changed my perspectives about the many things that were holding me back. I started showing myself to the world after years in isolation being afraid of rejection. And I did it vulnerably and proudly and gained amazing connections. I became clear about what my purpose is on this Earth. I put full faith into the business I started but couldn’t launch (I am launching soon 🥰), I learned - more like confirmed - that I am magical AF and there is no one on this planet like me. I was able to make sense of my life. Why things happened the way they did. Why people treated me the way they did. Why I treated myself the way I did. And I learned to love and forgive myself for what I didn’t know then but know now.
A New Chapter Begins…
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The ADHD Challenge kicks off in 5 days and honestly?! It's too good to keep it a secret 👀🙅‍♀️ Who do you think could benefit from this lovely challenge??!! 💌 Already done the challenge? Somewhere in your phone is a friend who keeps saying "I'm sooo overwhelmed" 😩 "I can't focus on anything" 😵‍💫 "Why is laundry so hard?!" 🚀 About to start? Share your excitement and invite a friend to join you! Because doing this together = double the fun, double the accountability, double the breakthroughs 🤩 ADHD brains love a buddy system. And the best part? You can invite anyone you want! Here's how 👇 🔗 Go to https://www.skool.com/adhd/-/members ➕ Click the + button 📋 Copy your personal invite link and share it! Who's with me on this?! 😉✨ Let's gooo! 🎉🧠💪
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Finished week 6 before the closing ceremony… I'm SO proud of myself! 💛✨
You know what's funny? I had been procrastinating this worksheet ALL morning. I kept telling myself it was going to be complex, that I'd have to dig super deep, that it would take forever. Classic ADHD brain making the mountain bigger than it is. 🏔️ And then I just… started. 🌱 I opened it...That's the whole trick. 🙏 And guess what? It flowed. It was so clear to me. It was actually lovely to fill in. Not complicated at all. I kept thinking: why did I wait so long for something that felt this good? 😅 The thing that hit me hardest reading my report: six weeks ago I wrote that I felt exhausted. Today I go to bed at 9 PM. I've checked in every single day. I somehow became a moderator in this community, and before this program I had literally not posted anything online in years. 🤯 The papers are still scattered. But I came back to myself, and that was the real Big Rock all along. 🪨💛 Who else is finishing something today? 👇
Finished week 6 before the closing ceremony… I'm SO proud of myself! 💛✨
The "Good Enough" Protocol
I had Sage help me create this to deal with anxiety I get around my perfectionism, overachieving and people-pleasing masks so I can learn to mask less and live more authentically when preparing for an event or an activity that I know is going to trigger those tendencies. I thought I would share it here in case it's helpful for anyone else. The Good Enough Protocol For any situation where perfectionism, people-pleasing, or overachieving show up. The underlying fear these masks protect against: that being visibly imperfect in front of others will cost you something (love, belonging, respect, reputation as the reliable one). Phase 1: Pre-Load (2 to 3 hours before) 1a. Define "good enough" in writing. Before your in-the-moment brain can move the goalposts, write: "This is a success if ____." Keep the bar stupidly low. Think minimum viable, not maximum impressive. The perfectionist brain will try to raise it on arrival. Your pre-written version overrides the in-the-moment negotiation. 1b. Write three permission slips. Out loud or on paper. Tailor to the situation, but some evergreen ones: - I have permission to reference notes, pause, or say "let me check" - I have permission to let others do their part without my control or rescue - I have permission to be visibly uncertain without apologizing for it 1c. Nervous system prep (10 minutes). Short version of the reset: 20 jumping jacks, 2 minutes shaking, 10 physiological sighs. You're getting ahead of the cortisol, not chasing it after it spikes. Phase 2: The Threshold (on arrival, before it starts) 2a. Brief the other humans, don't download to them. If other people are involved, give them one clear job, not a full summary of your plan. This solves the "they don't know what I'm doing" anxiety by redirecting you from managing their experience to defining their contribution. 2b. Handle the uncertain logistics first. Whatever physical or practical piece you're unsure about, do that first. If it doesn't fit or work, you have time to adapt. If it does, one anxiety loop closes before you even begin.
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