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Antonio Centeno

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Apr 10 •

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This Stops Being About Clothes

There's a shift that happens for some men. They stop asking "does this look okay?" and start knowing. Not because they memorized rules — but because they've built a standard for themselves. A quiet confidence that doesn't need to announce itself. You see it in how they walk into a room. In how people respond to them before they say a word. In how much mental energy they have left for things that actually matter. That's not style. That's identity. And identity isn't bought — it's built, through consistent habits and deliberate choices made over time. That's what RMRS Premium is designed for. Not trends. Not outfit grids. A structured path to becoming the man who looks sharp because of who he is — not what he's wearing. If that shift sounds like something you want, the door's open: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/plans

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A continuation of the art assignment today, requiring comfortable loungewear again. So, today’s outfit consists of: Charles Tyrwhitt cotton polo Hackett cotton chinos Andersons woven stretch belt Nobile Italy cotton socks Magnani suede tassel yacht loafers WOTD Rolex Submariner No-Date SOTD Layering combination suggested by Parfumo app - Fragrance du Bois’ Harrod’s Rude Cherry and Christian Provenzano’s Cuir Elite

Geoff Saunders

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Latest vintage find!

Very pleased with this Route 66 shirt I picked up in a vintage shop on Brick Lane. The only thing I liked in the whole shop. But you only need on thing so that's OK ...

Gibson Goff

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That One Fashion Comment I'll Never Forget

This title won out over "Do Your Clothes Match Your Persona?". As I dress for the day, or the event I try to imagine what I would look like to someone else as I'm wearing the clothes I choose. Do the clothes I pick match my personality and life? Or do I look like a left-over Miami Vice cast member? (Nothing against Miami Vice!) It brings me back to a car sales position many years ago. I had moved to Seattle and that afternoon had a sales job at Downtown Oldsmobile. I had no business clothes so I went to a local thrift store ran by a hospital where the docs would donate their clothes. I hooked a couple of sport coats and slacks for little money, I was set. While at the dealership the owner's son befriended me. He was just 16 and a great, clean cut kid. One day we had a maintenance job so I showed up in my old ratty jeans and a t-shirt. The kid acted confused and quiet around. Finally he quietly said he liked me better in my suit. I looked like just another person off the street in my grubbies. In my sport coat I was presentable, honest, and trustworthy - my true personality and what I strive for. He was seeing a fake me and his honesty shown brightly through. So now every time I question whether to dress up even a little, or slob it out I remember that kid, and his point-on lesson of what clothes fit my personality. A simple but heart felt comment I will never forget.

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