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There's a shift that happens for some men. They stop asking "does this look okay?" and start knowing. Not because they memorized rules — but because they've built a standard for themselves. A quiet confidence that doesn't need to announce itself. You see it in how they walk into a room. In how people respond to them before they say a word. In how much mental energy they have left for things that actually matter. That's not style. That's identity. And identity isn't bought — it's built, through consistent habits and deliberate choices made over time. That's what RMRS Premium is designed for. Not trends. Not outfit grids. A structured path to becoming the man who looks sharp because of who he is — not what he's wearing. If that shift sounds like something you want, the door's open: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/plans
This Stops Being About Clothes
Dating profile
I'm getting photos sorted for my dating profile, what's the view on my outfit? I'm aiming too look intentional, composed and in motion
Dating profile
Birthday Celebration | OOTD
I had my 36th birthday celebration today even though I turn 36 a week from tonight. I had a really nice dinner at BJ's Bar and Grill and then got treated to a bookstore. Love you Mom!
Birthday Celebration | OOTD
Pushup challenge
Hey guys, Just wanted to share a massive personal challenge I’m kicking off this Wednesday (June 3rd) that’s going to completely kick my ass over the next three weeks. Not sure if this is appropriate for this forum - happy to share a lot more than just this! In Australia, we have this massive annual event called The Push-Up Challenge. You have to complete a grueling number of push-ups over 24 days, and the target changes every year because it directly reflects a mental health statistic. This year, the target is exactly 3,307 push-ups. That specific number represents the number of lives lost to suicide in Australia in the most recent recorded year. It’s all geared toward raising awareness and backing crisis support networks like Lifeline. Unfortunately for us men, suicide is one of the leading causes of death and for young men (like me) it is THE LEADING CAUSE. To hold myself entirely accountable, I’m treating this like a full project delivery. I'll be filming the grind and doing daily updates across my Instagram and YouTube channel—including some ridiculous milestones like dropping to do sets in the absolute middle of the Melbourne CBD commuters. The daily targets scale up heavily as the weeks go on, and considering I've never attempted this volume of reps in my life, my shoulders are going to be cooked. Wish me luck for Day 1 on Wednesday. I'll keep you guys posted on how the body holds up after the first wave!
Hats!
The town where I live, Stockport UK , was once the global epicentre of the felt hat industry. It produced millions of hats annually throughout the 19th and 20th centuries. Today, my wife and I took a guided tour of the Hat Works museum, a once-functional factory full of the old machinery, steeped in historical millinery. We learnt a lot. For example, the links to the slave trade and Frederick Douglass, and Abraham Lincoln’s letter to the workers here. The industry-fuelled mass extinction of beavers in the UK, which saw them being shipped over from Canada (before a more sustainable solution saw 150,000 dead rabbits every week instead). The punishing poisonous process of hat-making itself, that led to countless deaths. And the money made, that was manipulated in an underhand fashion to prevent the GDP of Stockport eclipsing that of London and likely rewriting geographical history. Then there was the Gallery of Hats, with over 400 historical examples of hat styles from around the world, from the functional to the fashionable to the fantastical and everything in between. After lunch at the charity-ran cafe and art installation, we exited through the gift shop… where we both bought a hat! My wife went for a purple Winter Cloche Wool hat, which frames her face wonderfully and shows off her excellent hair. After much deliberation, I went for a black Pork Pie Wool hat, partly because I like the semi-formal nature of it but mostly because it gives off Heisenberg vibes. Both hats are Dentons, a company that is still local to me and very well regarded. If you’re in the neighbourhood and at a loose end, I can highly recommend the museum and the guided tour. And the hats? They’re pretty decent too.
Hats!
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