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Style Battle: Navy Suit vs. Charcoal Grey Suit? (Pick One & Why)
Gentlemen, if you could only own ONE suit for the rest of your life, which would it be? 👔⚔️ Two iconic suit colors. Two very different statements. And every well-dressed man has an opinion. THE NAVY SUI: Versatile, confident, and universally flattering. Navy reads as both formal and approachable, making it equally at home in a boardroom, at a wedding, or on a first date. Pair it with brown shoes for a classic look, or white sneakers for a modern edge. It's the suit that does everything. THE CHARCOAL GREY SUIT: The ultimate power suit. Serious, authoritative, and razor-sharp. Charcoal grey carries an undeniable gravitas that navy simply can't match — it's the suit you wear when you need to command a room. With a white shirt and black shoes, it's untouchable. The question: Which suit earns the single spot in your wardrobe — and why? Vote your pick below 👇 and tell me what outfit you'd build around it!
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Going to a Hair Salon for the first time
Man i can’t believe that this is actually a post lol 😆. But i’ve been taking the advice of some of the brothers and Mr. Centeno on this community, and decided to go to a salon for the first time. I’ve had years and years of shitty haircuts, and i mean no disrespect to the place, but ive realized that it just isn’t the look that fits me anymore lol. I felt a little awkward, being a dude in a salon, but it was genuinely such a good environment. The stylist was a really nice guy who did an excellent job on my hair. As a balding brother struggling with hair loss, i’ve been erring to find the right styles to cover it up while i’m on my hair loss meds journey, and he did a fantastic job at giving me a haircut for the occasion. They’re inclusive too, they also wash and dry and style your hair when finished. This is definitely going to be a new place for me to start going to now. It’s made a huge difference on my appearance and face. Thank you all!
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This Stops Being About Clothes
There's a shift that happens for some men. They stop asking "does this look okay?" and start knowing. Not because they memorized rules — but because they've built a standard for themselves. A quiet confidence that doesn't need to announce itself. You see it in how they walk into a room. In how people respond to them before they say a word. In how much mental energy they have left for things that actually matter. That's not style. That's identity. And identity isn't bought — it's built, through consistent habits and deliberate choices made over time. That's what RMRS Premium is designed for. Not trends. Not outfit grids. A structured path to becoming the man who looks sharp because of who he is — not what he's wearing. If that shift sounds like something you want, the door's open: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/plans
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Purging vs. expansive use
I have been watching Ash on the YouTube channel, The Chap's Guide. He often talks about how he purges sections of his wardrobe because he does not use the full array of items (e.g., ties or shoes). If there are items you simply do not use anymore because you no longer like the item then purging is appropriate. For example, purging all synthetic ties, eliminating duplicate shoes of the same class and color - such as black cap toe oxfords - by removing the less desirable pair). This is a solid reason for purging and I do this as well. I mostly donate to charity, though I am considering trying the seller's side of eBay. If, on the other hand (as Ash did with his ties a few years back), you are purging items you actually like but regret not wearing, I suggest it is very correctable, gives you many more outfit combinations, and will make you feel like you are getting your value of all of your wardrobe. Most of you know I am a proponent of using AI for my daily outfit selections. This process helps me take on a number of wardrobe use goals: don't wear the same viewable wardrobe piece in front of clients for the past 5 visits, don't wear any item within 5 days of the last wear (watches and some others excluded), work to drop the cost per wear for items with the least percent drop in CPW once per week and the raw CPW once per week. Keeping track of cost and when you last wore an item is easy and encourages you, say once per week, we wear an item that has not been worn in a while. When you do this, you also expand your outfit diversity, especially to those who see you on a daily basis. My office assistant quickly noticed that I never wear the same outfit and now he asks how he can do that in his life. BUT!! You do not need an Excel database to maximize using your less worn outfits. If you know you have 50 ties, ask your phone or smart speaker to pick a random number between 1 and 50. Then, wear tie 28 (if that's what it picked) on your tie rack that day. Ash says that after getting rid of 100 ties, he still only wears about 10 of his 100 remaining ties. One time per week, if he used simple random numbers, 90% of the time he would wear a less used tie. That new option can get him to consider a different outfit layout than he has been using lately.
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Out with the Old, in with the New
Today, I officially retired my well-worn Clarks Oxfords (right side)—faithful companions that have seen more miles than some government vehicles and probably attended more meetings than I care to remember. They’ve earned their rest. Comfortable, dependable, and never complained… even when I did. But it was time. In their place: a pair of brown/cognac Florsheim cap-toe Oxfords. Same mission set, just a little more refined—like trading in a trusted field watch for something with a bit more polish. The Clarks got me where I needed to go; these Florsheims are here to help me arrive with a little more presence. No disrespect to the old guard—but we’re stepping things up now. Notice, the new Florsheim's already have their new shoe trees!
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