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Day 1: Challenge Kick-off is happening in 3 days
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🚨 3 days left, are you ready? Everything you need to know
Alright, lovely ADHD Harmony fam, we’ll soon be kicking off the third edition of the 5-day ADHD Harmony Challenge. This challenge has already transformed the lives of over a thousand people. For some it's about the tiny shifts, for others it completely changed their lives. Are you ready? Let us know by taking the poll below. 1) Watch the short welcome & introduction videos so you're set up from day one 2) Optionally grab your AI Snapshot to go even deeper during the challenge (but you can absolutely start without it) 3) Make sure to add all sessions to your calendar and set reminders Let's do this. 🙌
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🚨 3 days left, are you ready? Everything you need to know
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A New Chapter Begins…
Today was the last session of the 6-week transformation program. Everyone shared their amazing and inspiring testimonials. I cried here and there. Deep down I knew I wanted to share my experience, but the old version of me was in the back of my mind trying to make me feel like I wasn’t safe to share. It was the fear that I wouldn’t know what to say. Or the fear that my words wouldn’t matter. That I wouldn’t matter. But I decided to choose the new me. The one that felt broken on day 1 but is now empowered and transformed. And so I spoke up. I didn’t think I would break down in tears. And I don’t mean 1 or 2 tears. I’m talking about ugly crying. On camera. Putting my entire heart out there for everyone to see and feel. But that is exactly what I needed in that moment. To release the part of me that no longer belonged in this timeline. And I’m just so grateful for that moment for everyone who showed their support in that deeply vulnerable and emotional moment. I’m so grateful to have been able to enroll in this program when I thought it wasn’t possible. The universe made it happen because it was truly meant for me. And I showed up. Every day. And there were times that I didn’t do a check-in, or I didn’t do my workout, or didn’t wash the dishes. But what I learned is that it’s not about being perfect every day. It’s all about coming back stronger and never giving up on yourself. I’ve experienced so many transformations throughout this 7 weeks (5-day challenge + 6-week program). I’ve become more self-aware. I learned things about myself that changed my perspectives about the many things that were holding me back. I started showing myself to the world after years in isolation being afraid of rejection. And I did it vulnerably and proudly and gained amazing connections. I became clear about what my purpose is on this Earth. I put full faith into the business I started but couldn’t launch (I am launching soon 🥰), I learned - more like confirmed - that I am magical AF and there is no one on this planet like me. I was able to make sense of my life. Why things happened the way they did. Why people treated me the way they did. Why I treated myself the way I did. And I learned to love and forgive myself for what I didn’t know then but know now.
A New Chapter Begins…
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The ADHD Challenge kicks off in 5 days and honestly?! It's too good to keep it a secret 👀🙅‍♀️ Who do you think could benefit from this lovely challenge??!! 💌 Already done the challenge? Somewhere in your phone is a friend who keeps saying "I'm sooo overwhelmed" 😩 "I can't focus on anything" 😵‍💫 "Why is laundry so hard?!" 🚀 About to start? Share your excitement and invite a friend to join you! Because doing this together = double the fun, double the accountability, double the breakthroughs 🤩 ADHD brains love a buddy system. And the best part? You can invite anyone you want! Here's how 👇 🔗 Go to https://www.skool.com/adhd/-/members ➕ Click the + button 📋 Copy your personal invite link and share it! Who's with me on this?! 😉✨ Let's gooo! 🎉🧠💪
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How to actually start tasks when your ADHD brain won't let you
@Vicky Salisbury @Tia ColemanCarr @Donna Bjurlin @Simon Sharpe @Dorothea Habtamu @Mary Christou @Joan Jones @Linda Hernandez @Mads Munk @Heather Jensen you all mentioned task initiation, motivation, procrastination, or feeling overwhelmed by everything on your plate. We covered this during the Q&A so here's the breakdown. The main message: most productivity advice is way too simplistic. A new Notion dashboard or switching to a different app is not going to fix it. That's putting a bandaid on a broken system. The Harmony Productivity System works in layers, and skipping layers is why most approaches fail. Also see the attached image for reference. Layer 1: Regulation first. You can have the best system in the world, but if you sleep badly, you won't be productive. Period. The first domino is always: optimize sleep, add some movement (releases dopamine naturally), improve nutrition. Without a regulated nervous system, nothing else works. This is why so many of you feel like you "can't start." Your brain literally doesn't have the fuel. Layer 2: Purpose & Alignment. Once regulation is handled, figure out what actually lights you up. You don't need your full life purpose right now. Just arrange things so what you do is at least somewhat aligned with who you are. @Heather Jensen this is your situation. If your current job drains you, that's okay, but have a plan for what you're working toward. Knowing the "why" behind the grind makes the grind bearable. Layer 3: Two Big Rocks. Don't set 10 goals. Pick two. Mine are my health and my business. Everything else follows from keeping those two on track. @Mary Christou , this is the answer to "what should I focus on?" Fewer priorities means more follow-through. Pick two, let everything else be secondary.
How to actually start tasks when your ADHD brain won't let you
Kinda blah today
Today I am finding it very hard to get motivated after receiving some tough news yesterday.... For the past 8 yrs I have been running on/in Caregive mode 1st my mom, then my best friend ,then my daddy, then my other friend,then my boyfriend whom I walked all to the end of life plus being an executor of the estate which was not a normal estate a lot of crap involved in this one. I've been fighting solar loan companies or reverse mortgage companies, billing, rebuilding or re doing my parents old house, it's been a nightmare!!! Little to no help from anybody else in my family! They were living their wonderful lives with their hands out You know how that goes the end of life! Everybody in my family all ended up having their houses to go to and homes to be in and because I was the caregiver I was at the home when my dad passed l! I had to sell the house to satisfy a reverse mortgage.! Once the house sold I had nowhere to go and I ended up having to move into a trailer which was then put on my son's property that he rents; well the property owner came in the other day and I guess I was making some demands about clean up or whatever and between the storms that we've been having between as sick as I've been because my son put me in a trailer that had black mold in it and didn't check it before he put me in there I've been super sick on top of having lupus and RA and fibromyalgia osteoporosis osteoarthritis poly arthritis you name it and I'm just exhausted! Add in my OCD and ADHD and all the other D's in between lol plus 2 torn rotator cuffs and a torn bicep muscule haven't been able to do much heavy stuff! And I only have until the 10th to get everything done involving my living situation but today I just just don't have it.... I have also been caring for my sister since March 13th she fell and broke her shoulder and dislocated her knee and she's a bigger girl than I am. I'm about 149 lb and she's about 315 lb and I literally have been doing everything in her house to include helping lift her , taking care of her kids her grandbaby, babysitting and cooking, doing laundry You name it you know all the while doing executorship duties still! The estate still is not closed due to issues with the reverse mortgage company . I have until May 10th to get everything around the area and the trailer which wouldn't be bad if it didn't entail part of the estate being involved! And that's not even the worst of it even if I do get it done there's no telling if I'm even going to still have a place to live....... I'm just ugh
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