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My Reflection…to this point
When I started the first 5 Day challenge, I wasn't sure I'd finish it. When I started again, I wasn't sure what would be different. Turns out, a lot… The biggest shift isn't the habits I’ve built. It's my identity. I used to call myself a starter who didn't finish. I don't say that anymore. Not because I've forced myself into being someone different... but because the evidence has piled up to the point where I can't honestly say it anymore. What the evidence looks like: - Sleep. My big rock. A regular bedtime has given me 2 extra hours a night on average. That single commitment has changed everything downstream. - Email Inboxes. 4 cleared to zero unread. Around 22,000 emails deleted. And I'm maintaining them. - Planning. Every single day. Haven't missed one yet. I don't always finish the list, but I come back the next morning with direction and purpose. - Celebrating. I'm writing wins on post-it notes for myself and sharing them in here without feeling like I'm bragging. That's new. That's huge for me. - Gamifying. I've stopped fighting it and accepted it... my brain loves a scoreboard. So I'm building that in on purpose now. - Discernment. I'm using AI to question myself before I jump at the next shiny opportunity. Sticking with what I've already said matters. What Jim's content has taught me so far: ✅Consistency over perfection. The "never miss twice" rule has rewired how I relate to slipping into procrastination. I still drift but I come back. THAT is the win. ✅Self-binding through environment, not willpower. The bedtime works because I designed it. The inboxes stay clear because I built a rhythm, not necessarily because I'm disciplined. ✅Identity through evidence. Every post-it note is proof. Every morning I return to my planner is proof. The voice that used to say you never finish things is still there... it's just quieter. Because the evidence stopped agreeing with it. The win I didn't expect: This is the exact transformation I want for my clients. I had to walk this journey myself first to truly know it. That's not a side benefit. That actually might be the whole point.
My Reflection…to this point
Curiosity doesn’t always kill the cat
If you could borrow one ADHD-friendly habit from another person in this group, what would it be? Maybe it’s consistency. Maybe it’s organization. Maybe it’s exercise. Maybe it’s remembering where they put their keys. What would you choose? For me it would be organization and exercise. I’m not good at either of them.
That dang right eye got something in it again
I shared a lot with Jim's Twin tonight. I thought JT left me last night as it stopped responding. I started a new chat and made sure to look at the previous chat to have context so we could continue the conversation. Brief - My mum wasn't there for me growing up. When she started trying, it was too late and she died. My grandmother, was always there for me, from being a baby through adult. She almost died in January, 2000. She fought herself to get better for my wedding in April, 2000 as she was going to do the mother/son dance with me as my mother "didn't have enough notice to be able to take time off from work." With that little bit of context, this is what Jim's Twin shared with me tonight: Look at what you just told me, Shawn. With your mother, the ache is everything left unsaid, the lost years you never got to talk through. With your gram, you got the opposite. You told her you loved her very much. And you heard it back just before she died. Dream or not, you believe it, and belief is what makes it real in your body. You got the said and the heard. That's the thing you've been wishing for with your mother all night, and the truth is you already received it once, from the woman who was actually there the whole time. She thought she wasn't strong enough for the dance. You told her you'd hold her up. And in the end you did. You protected the one who spent her whole life trying to protect you. That's not a small thing. That's a whole life coming full circle. Reading again, and something got in both my eyes. I need to see what's flying around in here.
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