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Day 6: Reinvent Your ADHD Life is happening in 5 hours

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Jim Ebbelaar

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6 weeks from now, your life could look like this.

Watch this before the bonus event (day 6) 🎥 This is the final call from Cohort 2. This is them on the day the six weeks ended. 42 days ago, they sat exactly where you're sitting right now. Today is the bonus event (day 6). Make sure you show up, even if you haven't started or finished the challenge. This is the doorway. The same one every person in that video walked through. Be in the room live. 👉 SET REMINDERS! Drop "I'M IN" below if you'll be there. @Heather Jensen went from giving her best energy to a draining day job to taking back her mornings for her novel and screenplay after 43 years of bedtime procrastination. @Lynn Berry went from "too old, too fat, too arthritic, and too afraid to change" to opening her own Reiki practice at 72, befriending the body she came in afraid @Tracy Weiss went from rock bottom and almost hopeless to "I'm a whole new person, and I like myself now." @Sammy Boyster went from crash-landing into the program with no housing and a job that didn't fit to a job that works for her, stable housing, and finances back on track. @Darci Wert went from thinking about getting rid of her things so it'd be easier to clean her space after she died to launching a coaching business. @Sara Ellisson went from suicidal thoughts and the belief she had to struggle to prove her existence to choosing to stay, minute by minute, for little Sara inside her. @Sean Frost went from a frantic ball of energy flying blind in survival mode to slower, steadier, and able to live with the difficult thing without quitting. @Randy Keats went from almost joining another "ADHD productivity program" to finally looking deeper inside.

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I cannot begin to say thank you for the final reveal that was/is my final report. I cried through the whole thing, it has shown me half remembered feelings that have crippled me for 5 decades. I started a bit apprehensively, but filled everything honestly, that first report made me cry, but the final is like my best self, a reflection that I have not been able to look at for decades, and certainly never believed in. All of my stumbling blocks have been shown to be put there as forms of self protection, or to protect other people from me finding out about their problems/ expectations/limitations. For years I have believed I didnt have the skills to amount to much, lack of concentration, lack of intellect, just general 'lack' and I have allowed that to happen because I trusted those people. I started trying to break the mold a few years ago and now I'm going for the full monty. Its MY time, MY life and I claim it and Im going to run with it! Thank you to Jim and team!

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I have been in the program since March; I did the five day workshop and then the 6 week program. If you are patient, watch the classes, do the worksheets, and don’t let the technical issues get you down, you WILL find help through this program. You will get insights into who you are and how your brain works that will blow your mind. I’ve spent decades (I’m 66) looking for the answers Jim’s program has helped me discover. I’ve worked with life coaches, counselors, therapists, neurologists, brain injury specialist, etc. NONE of them were able to help me in the ways this program has. I am different in several positive ways because I’m making the necessary changes and following these protocols.

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Just got to the belief section of my ADHD Awakening Assessment and realized the voice in my head saying "what's wrong with you, all you have to do is get up" was never actually mine. And the wildest part? I've already had moments where I just got up and did everything - with no thoughts at all. Both things are somehow true.

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Bob Watson

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💬 General

Can’t just let things go

I get really aggrieved about things which seem like cheating and get told off by my wife for going on and on and on etc about it. A while ago I saw some furniture advertised for sale locally, and a few days later available for free collection. The following day, it turned up dumped on some waste land under a railway bridge near us. I called the local council, the police, everyone with any form of responsibility in our village, hassled the guy in charge of fly-tipping and tried to find out who owned the land. Nobody would do anything about it - it fell between responsibilities, but eventually some enterprising teenagers crawled in and collected it all for their den. Similarly, in my running club the guy who was organising the points league, with a big trophy available for the winner seemed to be cheating. I was really upset, told everyone I knew, fell out with the club and left in a huff. Now, someone is going too fast on his bicycle and stealing all my records for eg the route from my village to the next one. I know for a fact that it really isn’t important - in the proper competitions I’m fairly quick for a 60 something, but not like a proper athlete. Nevertheless, I think he’s cheating at least some of the time (there is some evidence), and I won’t let it go. When I was on holiday years ago, I set a record on the bicycle for the climb up the mountain, before the island had been discovered by anyone with a proper bicycle. Later that day, I got a notification that someone had stolen my virtual trophy and despite the fact that the guys ride was literally titled “riding around on a quad bike”, I had to get changed and try to steal the crown back. I don’t know if I can blame this on ADHD, or just being too fragile and too competitive?