Not sure what to call this
This weekend was a lesson is learning to let go I guess. We had plans for today to see friends and celebrate their little girls birthday. They moved away last year but our friends parents still live here in town. Well mid day yesterday my husband got a call from his friend saying that we being uninvited to the party because of the parents not “liking or not knowing us well enough” and don’t feel comfortable being around us. Now mind you my husband has know both of these people (our friends) since junior high and high school. They have remained friends this whole time. We have always been nice and respectful when we have gone over and even have brought food and drinks for everyone before. So being told that we make them or well the mom of our friend so uncomfortable that she would refuse to even go outside was hard to hear and a bit upsetting. I know that I can’t control how other people react but the fact that our friends were first given the okay for us to be there for the party to then be told the day before “no sorry they can’t come because they make me uncomfortable” just sucks. Anyways I think I’m rambling but needed to get this off my chest that I know it shouldn’t bother me and I should let it go but it truly bothers me because I feel like we have done nothing wrong to these people and now their granddaughter gets to suffer not seeing friends she wanted at her party.