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This Stops Being About Clothes
There's a shift that happens for some men. They stop asking "does this look okay?" and start knowing. Not because they memorized rules — but because they've built a standard for themselves. A quiet confidence that doesn't need to announce itself. You see it in how they walk into a room. In how people respond to them before they say a word. In how much mental energy they have left for things that actually matter. That's not style. That's identity. And identity isn't bought — it's built, through consistent habits and deliberate choices made over time. That's what RMRS Premium is designed for. Not trends. Not outfit grids. A structured path to becoming the man who looks sharp because of who he is — not what he's wearing. If that shift sounds like something you want, the door's open: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/plans
This Stops Being About Clothes
Update: Allen Edmonds "Wendell" Bicycle Toe Derby
Current completed stages As you can see from the pictures, I was able to remove the deep creases Stripping (The Reset): Applied Saphir Reno'Mat using microfiber rags. Stripped until the leather was "matted" and porous. *Letting them sit for 12 hours... I will come back to them tomorrow and evaluate if they need more stripping. Next steps Re-Hydration: Applying a light coat of Saphir conditioner, than allowing 24 hours for lipid penetration to prevent "dye-shock" (cracking).
Update: Allen Edmonds "Wendell" Bicycle Toe Derby
11/4 OOTD
Stakes Day (Day at the Races) Hat: Trilby (Stanton) Scarf: Sky Blue Silk (Elizabetta Bontique) Suit: Black Merino Wool (Woolcott Street) Dress Shirt: Black and Navy Blue Winchester (Woolcott Street) Tie: Black (Unknown) Pocket Square: White Satin (Unknown) Ring: Gold Custom Signet (Royal Signet) Watch: Gold/White Tank Dial (Seiko) Socks: Black (M.J. Bale) Shoes: Black Monkstraps (Woolcott Street) Fragrance: Black Orchid EDP (Tom Ford)
11/4 OOTD
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I haven't posted pictures often mainly because I've been on a weight reduction journey the last seven months. Really, I wasn't going to show gym pants and pullovers, right? So, I am just getting into the clothes I kept. For reference I've reduced from 318 lbs. to 242 lbs. since October 2025. Had errands to run today so here is the OOTD. Jacket is P J Paul Jones (Amazon) linen/cotton Shirt is black silk by Pronto-Uomo (Men's Wearhouse) Jeans Levi's 505 Flat cap from Target Ray-Ban aviators Skechers slip-ons Watch Timex-The Waterbury chronograph.
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wallet suggestions
I'm looking for wallet suggestions. I carry two wallets mostly to balance out instead of having one big one, but also If one were to ever get lost stolen etc, I would still have some money/cards etc In the other one. Wallet 1 is a traditional al L style Bifold with windows Wallet 2 is a Bifold with money clip. The ones I currently have are by "Big Skinny" but im looking for other suggestions
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