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This Stops Being About Clothes
There's a shift that happens for some men. They stop asking "does this look okay?" and start knowing. Not because they memorized rules — but because they've built a standard for themselves. A quiet confidence that doesn't need to announce itself. You see it in how they walk into a room. In how people respond to them before they say a word. In how much mental energy they have left for things that actually matter. That's not style. That's identity. And identity isn't bought — it's built, through consistent habits and deliberate choices made over time. That's what RMRS Premium is designed for. Not trends. Not outfit grids. A structured path to becoming the man who looks sharp because of who he is — not what he's wearing. If that shift sounds like something you want, the door's open: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/plans
This Stops Being About Clothes
OOTD
I haven't posted pictures often mainly because I've been on a weight reduction journey the last seven months. Really, I wasn't going to show gym pants and pullovers, right? So, I am just getting into the clothes I kept. For reference I've reduced from 318 lbs. to 242 lbs. since October 2025. Had errands to run today so here is the OOTD. Jacket is P J Paul Jones (Amazon) linen/cotton Shirt is black silk by Pronto-Uomo (Men's Wearhouse) Jeans Levi's 505 Flat cap from Target Ray-Ban aviators Skechers slip-ons Watch Timex-The Waterbury chronograph.
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wallet suggestions
I'm looking for wallet suggestions. I carry two wallets mostly to balance out instead of having one big one, but also If one were to ever get lost stolen etc, I would still have some money/cards etc In the other one. Wallet 1 is a traditional al L style Bifold with windows Wallet 2 is a Bifold with money clip. The ones I currently have are by "Big Skinny" but im looking for other suggestions
Men's bag please
I want to understand about men's bag as a fashion item. It is surely the most utility item a man can carry. But, often, due to lack of awareness, I just carry my back pack (which has very traditional looks). And I am beginning to realize that back packs are too old school and lack that oomph. Please help me here. What kind of a bag would you carry? If you already are into this, please post some pics and details.
Leadership Comes Down to This…
Most people overcomplicate leadership. It’s actually simple. Not easy… …but simple. If you want to be a great leader ... you have to master 2 things: 1. Lead by example. You don’t get to tell people what to do if you’re not doing it yourself. No one respects that. No one follows that. And it’s not something you do when it’s convenient… It’s something you do every single day. 2. Hold people accountable. You can’t let crap slide. You can’t play favorites. You can’t avoid hard conversations. Some people will hate you for it. Some people will rise because of it. That’s how you build a real team… A team that grows. A team that wins. Leadership isn’t easy. But it is simple. Do these two things… Or don’t expect to lead anyone anywhere. ~ Andy Frisella
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