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This Stops Being About Clothes
There's a shift that happens for some men. They stop asking "does this look okay?" and start knowing. Not because they memorized rules — but because they've built a standard for themselves. A quiet confidence that doesn't need to announce itself. You see it in how they walk into a room. In how people respond to them before they say a word. In how much mental energy they have left for things that actually matter. That's not style. That's identity. And identity isn't bought — it's built, through consistent habits and deliberate choices made over time. That's what RMRS Premium is designed for. Not trends. Not outfit grids. A structured path to becoming the man who looks sharp because of who he is — not what he's wearing. If that shift sounds like something you want, the door's open: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/plans
This Stops Being About Clothes
60 degree Vibes
We're still in the wild weather swings, but I'm trying to coax out some more consistent spring colors to go with the temperature. OOTD: Heather Blue Crew Neck Sweater Tan dress trousers White/Tan/Blue Tattersall Dress Shirt Tan/dark Brown Textured OTC Dress Socks Brown Calf Split Toe Derby's. Seiko Presage Hope you all have a fantastic Friday!!
60 degree Vibes
OOTD
I haven't posted pictures often mainly because I've been on a weight reduction journey the last seven months. Really, I wasn't going to show gym pants and pullovers, right? So, I am just getting into the clothes I kept. For reference I've reduced from 318 lbs. to 242 lbs. since October 2025. Had errands to run today so here is the OOTD. Jacket is P J Paul Jones (Amazon) linen/cotton Shirt is black silk by Pronto-Uomo (Men's Wearhouse) Jeans Levi's 505 Flat cap from Target Ray-Ban aviators Skechers slip-ons Watch Timex-The Waterbury chronograph.
OOTD
Socks Matter Too!
Men notice details—despite what we’ve been accused of for decades. Case in point: I walked out of a meeting yesterday and got hit with, “Hey Sir, I like your socks—they match your jacket.” That makes two senior leaders, in two weeks, who’ve zeroed in on my socks like it’s part of the command inspection checklist. Apparently, somewhere between strategy briefs and operational updates, we’ve added “coordinated hosiery” to the standard. The takeaway? You can spend years refining leadership, decision-making, and presence—but in the end, it’s the socks that close the deal.
Socks Matter Too!
Update: Allen Edmonds "Wendell" Bicycle Toe Derby
Current completed stages As you can see from the pictures, I was able to remove the deep creases Stripping (The Reset): Applied Saphir Reno'Mat using microfiber rags. Stripped until the leather was "matted" and porous. *Letting them sit for 12 hours... I will come back to them tomorrow and evaluate if they need more stripping. Next steps Re-Hydration: Applying a light coat of Saphir conditioner, than allowing 24 hours for lipid penetration to prevent "dye-shock" (cracking).
Update: Allen Edmonds "Wendell" Bicycle Toe Derby
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