In the two years I’ve been in this community I had only purchased one coat and two pair of trousers (plus some CT shirts and one tie). Most of what I’ve posted is quite old clothing. But as I am settling into a more desirable weight I broke down and followed my budgeted purchases which takes advantage of the seasonal sales. Since I need some tailored clothing that will actually fit I added some items to the closet. On a trip to Oklahoma City about a month ago I caught my friend Steve Giles of Stephen Giles Clothings clearance sale up to 60% off and got two pair of trousers and a very light weight fall jacket. My mother happened to be in OkC yesterday and picked them up for me and dropped them off about 10 O’clock last night and I thought that might work so as not to wake my wife as I slugged off to my early morning men’s group. Maybe a little late in the season for the coat but I had to try it out. https://stevengilesclothing.com •Sid Mashburn vicuña colored herringbone • Samuelsohn tan trouser • CT white French cuff shirt • silk pocket square • O ring belt • Pendleton socks in clay • Cole Haan Waxhides (1982) • antique shamrock cuff links • Ernest Borel automatic watch (1940’s)

This outfit strikes a sharp balance between classic structure and modern personality, anchored by a blue plaid jacket that brings depth without overwhelming the look. The purple tie sits confidently within the same color family, creating a smooth, intentional flow, while the crisp white shirt keeps everything grounded and clean. Charcoal trousers provide a neutral base that lets the upper half carry the visual interest without competing. The brown brogues introduce just enough warmth and texture to keep the outfit approachable, while the light blue socks subtly tie the palette together. Finished with a two-tone watch and understated accessories, this is a disciplined, well-executed look that shows attention to detail without trying too hard.

Good morning gentlemen, There was a time in my life that I thought that in order to succeed I had to just get lucky, or maybe get in the right circle. And yes, some have succeeded by doing these things, yet most of those who did eventually failed at one point or another. Why? Because most lacked discipline and they never learned or understood basic principles. I’ve failed at so many things in the early part of life, because of lack of discipline and part of this was not listening to people like my parents and grandparents who tried to impart these things. Yes, I am better now but lost at the cost, look at the time lost, and the pain that came at that cost. A man who truly wants to succeed, must cut these five things out from his daily routine if he doesn’t, they won’t just slow him down, they’ll destroy him silently. Here are five things that a gentleman needs to cut from his daily routine in order to succeed. 1. Cut off procrastination every I’ll do it later, eventually turns into I wish I had started earlier. What you delayed today becomes the enemy that defeats you tomorrow 2. Cut off the negative mindset, it is a quiet killer. If you already believe you’ll fail you, don’t even need an enemy and you become your own 3. Cut off laziness, good intentions don’t pay bills; dreams without effort dying; in silence while you sleep on your potential, someone else is awake and grinding 4. Cut off your vices, addiction is slow suicide; if you don’t control your habits, your habits will end up controlling your life 5. Cut off complacency; comfort is dangerous, comfort is where potential goes to die. The moment you stop growing you’ve already started declining. Here is the reality, most men never learn; a discipline man is not controlled by pleasure, he is driven by purpose.