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Shoutout To Chad Smith & Dr. Jason Cole (Setting the Standard!)
Shoutout to a couple of members who set the tone for what makes this community great! First, @Chad Smith with a strong OOTD post. He did exactly what helps others learn: he shared the full outfit breakdown, the details, and the why behind it — from the navy cable knit and brown polo to the indigo 501s, oxblood double monks, matching strap, scent, and watch. That kind of post gives other men real examples they can study and apply. (Link to post) Second, @Dr. Jason Cole for jumping in to help @Ken Erickson with a style question on black tux shoes. That kind of thoughtful member-to-member guidance is exactly what builds a real brotherhood here — not just posting, but showing up to help someone make a better decision when it matters. Ken’s question itself was a great one too: plain toe, cap toe, wingtip, or even black dress boots with a tux. (Link to comment) Post your outfits. Ask your questions. Help your fellow members. That’s how we all get sharper!
Shoutout To Chad Smith & Dr. Jason Cole (Setting the Standard!)
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This Stops Being About Clothes
There's a shift that happens for some men. They stop asking "does this look okay?" and start knowing. Not because they memorized rules — but because they've built a standard for themselves. A quiet confidence that doesn't need to announce itself. You see it in how they walk into a room. In how people respond to them before they say a word. In how much mental energy they have left for things that actually matter. That's not style. That's identity. And identity isn't bought — it's built, through consistent habits and deliberate choices made over time. That's what RMRS Premium is designed for. Not trends. Not outfit grids. A structured path to becoming the man who looks sharp because of who he is — not what he's wearing. If that shift sounds like something you want, the door's open: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/plans
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There are times I feel I prove the definition of insanity, “ Doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.” And the reality is I am fighting myself by trying make major changes that I really was not ready to make and expecting it all to work out. So how do I make changes without failing or making a fool out of myself? How can I make changes that people don’t think that I’m faking or that I am trying too hard? This is what I learned, if I can work on getting 1% better every day, most people think improvement requires massive change. They wait for motivation, they plan for tomorrow, but ancient philosophy teaches us something; radical greatness is not built in leaps, it is built in barely noticeable steps repeated with relentless consistency. Think about this, clearly 1% better every day doesn’t feel like progress, it feels like nothing and that is exactly why it works. Your mind doesn’t resist small changes it resists revolution. The stoics understood this deeply Marcus Aurelius didn’t become wise overnight. He wrote one reflection at a time, day after day, year after year, small deposits into the bank of discipline. Gentlemen, here’s the truth most miss; if you improve just one percent daily for one year you don’t just improve, you also grow, learn, and make tangible gains in your life.
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FB marketplace thrift find for $10. officially have a leather jacket again
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A quick shout out to @Chad Smith and his daughter for presenting the opportunity for gaining a Yiume shirt and choosing my submission respectively. I shall wear the Christmas one this December and the Love our Earth shirt starting in May. Thank you again!
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