Sorry all. I have come home from work having dizzy spells, hot and cold flushes and both my legs are aching. I think I liked enough comments to keep my 🔥 let’s hope tomorrow is a better day.

I think I have hit that point in life where everyone starts to question themselves: these are my questions that keep running through my mind. - Have I been successful in my life? - Am I a good enough husband and father? - Is my career going somewhere ? - Am I leading a good life, and being a great role model for my kids? - Am I a good person, friend, colleague? - Do I try hard enough to succeed and be a leader in my field of work? - And many more thoughts as well. I’m sure there is a a lot more I could add to this list. Im sure I’m just overthinking things, but lately I’ve been asking myself these questions. I’m pretty sure we all have been there. I’m thinking of ways I can answer those questions and still second guess myself. I’m sure this will pass, but I think I’ve hit a wall and not sure how to come out of it. It’s probably me overthinking and underestimating myself and my life, but it has me slightly depressed. Just a thought, and figured I would share with my fellow friends. Let me know your thoughts.

Charles Tyrwhitt sage linen shirt with rolled sleeves over tan Jos A Bank linen shorts. Brown Anson belt with silver buckle and Beckett Simonon brown suede Reid sneakers. Vincero chronograph watch with green dial and Jean Paul Gaultier Le Male Intense.

I bought a pair of suede derbies from eBay. I wore them out to dinner with chinos tonight, but tomorrow we're going to the wholesale club and I'm wearing dark-wash Levi's because whenever I wear chinos there they get stained. The derbies are less formal than oxfords but more formal than loafers, even though the suede brings down the formality level. I'm just wondering if they're appropriate to wear with jeans? It's been a while since I've worn lace-ups.