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There's a shift that happens for some men. They stop asking "does this look okay?" and start knowing. Not because they memorized rules — but because they've built a standard for themselves. A quiet confidence that doesn't need to announce itself. You see it in how they walk into a room. In how people respond to them before they say a word. In how much mental energy they have left for things that actually matter. That's not style. That's identity. And identity isn't bought — it's built, through consistent habits and deliberate choices made over time. That's what RMRS Premium is designed for. Not trends. Not outfit grids. A structured path to becoming the man who looks sharp because of who he is — not what he's wearing. If that shift sounds like something you want, the door's open: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/plans
This Stops Being About Clothes
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Buntyn’s Tie Challenge Day 30
Into the final weekend of the Challenge, although I’m going into the shop for a few hours because there’s lots of bikes to fix. Today I began with the Navy Blue Cotton Trousers from L.L.Bean. Then I chose the RL Gingham Check Shirt, secured with the Navy Blue Silk Tie. Covered it up with the Brooks Bros. Houndstooth Jacket and chose the Brown Belt and Loafers. 👞
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Buntyn’s Tie Challenge Day 30
OOTD-CW - 29 May 2026
The last work day of May. It's been a great month for the company and we finished strong with on-time delivery of a complicated project - the best kind. June will be a life-altering month with my eldest son graduating from high school, community college, all events within a week of each other. My youngest is feeling quite sad from it all, as he loves spending time (and deeply reveres) his older brother. As a father, I am blessed to have two boys, 4.5 years apart, who absolutely love each other, enjoy spending time together, have not had an argument in years, and now already recognize how Logan going away to college will change their relationship forever. I've been working with my younger son to understand that this is a part of how they will be for the rest of their lives, so figuring out how to still engage with each other meaningfully while living apart is just the next phase of their relationship. One, that if he works at it, will be just as rewarding as what he has now. And yeah, that breaks my heart a little too, but this is the role of the father and I heartfully take it on. So... with that emotional roller coaster, it's time for... the purple Oxfords! When I brought them out yesterday to set up today's outfit, my wife looked at me and groaned a bit. I told Nathanial that these shoes will be his when I finally pass away. After my wife said, "they are going in the coffin with you", he said, "no way - I'm totally getting them!" That's my boy! Today's outfit has a total outfit cost-per-wear of $103.39. Use your items well, keep them well maintained, and your outfits will be incredibly valuable every time you wear them. Today's outfit is a deliberate study in purple tonal harmony—a sophisticated vest-and-tie combination perfect for internal video conferences with out-of-state employees, plus an in-person meeting at the Torrance Office. • Shirt — DS-031 (Charles Tyrwhitt): A lilac Burlington Weave Prince of Wales Check dress shirt in classic fit with French cuffs and a point collar (5.75" spread). The subtle check pattern adds visual depth without overwhelming the camera, while the lilac base sets the purple theme for the entire outfit. Cost: $55.07 | Wears: 5 | CPW: $11.01
OOTD-CW - 29 May 2026
Seasonal Sartorial Strategy?
With extensive travel to several coastal resorts on my itinerary this summer, I have decided to deliberately curate a versatile selection of high-quality linen. I am incorporating everything from unstructured linen suits, jackets, and tailored trousers to breathable shirts and refined polos. Once this seasonal wardrobe is fully established and stabilized, my acquisition strategy will shift back to a more disciplined phase. At that point, I become far more selective with my purchases, adhering to a strict fiscal boundary—allocating roughly 5-10% of my net take-home pay to maintain and refresh my collection. I'd like to get your thoughts on your seasonal sartorial strategy!!!
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