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This Stops Being About Clothes
There's a shift that happens for some men. They stop asking "does this look okay?" and start knowing. Not because they memorized rules — but because they've built a standard for themselves. A quiet confidence that doesn't need to announce itself. You see it in how they walk into a room. In how people respond to them before they say a word. In how much mental energy they have left for things that actually matter. That's not style. That's identity. And identity isn't bought — it's built, through consistent habits and deliberate choices made over time. That's what RMRS Premium is designed for. Not trends. Not outfit grids. A structured path to becoming the man who looks sharp because of who he is — not what he's wearing. If that shift sounds like something you want, the door's open: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/plans
This Stops Being About Clothes
White and white, anyone?
Here comes my poll of the day. Would you consider wearing all white dress at all? I know this is a thing among the ladies, but not sure about gentlemen.
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How about a theory of intentional attire selection? Calling Darwin!
I just made up this theory (🤣) after reading some of the comments in a different thread of mine. Yes, this has a parallel with the Darwinian theory of natural selection. This is what it is: you may have all types of clothing in different shades and hues, which fit you in different ways, and for different occasions. a. Let us say, you have a minimalist wardrobe. b. There are 4 shirts, 4 Polos, 2 pairs of jeans, 2 pairs of Chinos, 2 fitting types for your pants (mid rise, high rise), 3 jackets, 3 pairs of footwear, and two belts. c. That is 8 upper wear, 4 lower wear, 2 bottom fitting patterns, 3 layering pieces, 3 pairs shoes, and 2 belts. d. The number of ways you can wear these combinations are 8 upper X 8 lower (4 X 2 fits) X 3 layering X 3 shoe pairs X 2 belts = 1152 e. Among these, only certain combinations would look good on you. May be 100 combinations at best (again, an optimistic estimate). f. The success rate of getting a nice attire out of your wardrobe is 100/1152, which is under 10% but statistically significant. If this was under 5%, your wardrobe needs an overhaul. If all the of the combinations rock on you, you are the next Antonio (😍). g. Getting this success rate cannot be by trial and error as no one has the time or inclination to try 1152 combinations. h. So, the best way to get dressed nicely is do some research, enroll in discussion groups like RMRS, and level up by an intentional selection! I may be very goofy with this theory, but I think it makes sense.
A Wild Experiment
Gents, what do you think about this experiment? This isn’t something I’d like to do often but I really love leather jackets. What are your thoughts on leather jackets? And also, I’d love to know if a leather jacket suits me… By the way, the photos were taken at the famous Central Street, Harbin, China.
A Wild Experiment
Socks Matter Too!
Men notice details—despite what we’ve been accused of for decades. Case in point: I walked out of a meeting yesterday and got hit with, “Hey Sir, I like your socks—they match your jacket.” That makes two senior leaders, in two weeks, who’ve zeroed in on my socks like it’s part of the command inspection checklist. Apparently, somewhere between strategy briefs and operational updates, we’ve added “coordinated hosiery” to the standard. The takeaway? You can spend years refining leadership, decision-making, and presence—but in the end, it’s the socks that close the deal.
Socks Matter Too!
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