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Style Battle: Navy Suit vs. Charcoal Grey Suit? (Pick One & Why)
Gentlemen, if you could only own ONE suit for the rest of your life, which would it be? 👔⚔️ Two iconic suit colors. Two very different statements. And every well-dressed man has an opinion. THE NAVY SUI: Versatile, confident, and universally flattering. Navy reads as both formal and approachable, making it equally at home in a boardroom, at a wedding, or on a first date. Pair it with brown shoes for a classic look, or white sneakers for a modern edge. It's the suit that does everything. THE CHARCOAL GREY SUIT: The ultimate power suit. Serious, authoritative, and razor-sharp. Charcoal grey carries an undeniable gravitas that navy simply can't match — it's the suit you wear when you need to command a room. With a white shirt and black shoes, it's untouchable. The question: Which suit earns the single spot in your wardrobe — and why? Vote your pick below 👇 and tell me what outfit you'd build around it!
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Going to a Hair Salon for the first time
Man i can’t believe that this is actually a post lol 😆. But i’ve been taking the advice of some of the brothers and Mr. Centeno on this community, and decided to go to a salon for the first time. I’ve had years and years of shitty haircuts, and i mean no disrespect to the place, but ive realized that it just isn’t the look that fits me anymore lol. I felt a little awkward, being a dude in a salon, but it was genuinely such a good environment. The stylist was a really nice guy who did an excellent job on my hair. As a balding brother struggling with hair loss, i’ve been erring to find the right styles to cover it up while i’m on my hair loss meds journey, and he did a fantastic job at giving me a haircut for the occasion. They’re inclusive too, they also wash and dry and style your hair when finished. This is definitely going to be a new place for me to start going to now. It’s made a huge difference on my appearance and face. Thank you all!
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This Stops Being About Clothes
There's a shift that happens for some men. They stop asking "does this look okay?" and start knowing. Not because they memorized rules — but because they've built a standard for themselves. A quiet confidence that doesn't need to announce itself. You see it in how they walk into a room. In how people respond to them before they say a word. In how much mental energy they have left for things that actually matter. That's not style. That's identity. And identity isn't bought — it's built, through consistent habits and deliberate choices made over time. That's what RMRS Premium is designed for. Not trends. Not outfit grids. A structured path to becoming the man who looks sharp because of who he is — not what he's wearing. If that shift sounds like something you want, the door's open: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/plans
This Stops Being About Clothes
It’s Not What They Call You That Matters, It’s What You Answer to That Matters
Good morning gentlemen, So, many of you know that my grandson wanted to start this journey at an early age, and I have encouraged him to do so. I have had him watch videos, of different topics, held discussions with him, and encouraged him to become knowledgeable in every aspect. He loves to wars his Chinos, and polos, and he definitely loves to wears suits and blazers. Most of the time he wears loafers and he generally only wears tennis shoes when he has gym. (smart young man). So the other day he come home and he was from what I could tell a little perplexed and upset. So I inquired what was wrong and at first like any young teenager, he did not want to say, being that he felt embarrassed, but I encouraged him to tag to me, and he stated that at school this one kid made fun of his school because he was wearing loafers instead of Jordon’s and was doing this in front of other kids. I asked him how did he respond? He, stated “ I did exactly how to told me to respond, I took a pause for a couple of seconds, then I looked him in the face and I asked him in a firm but elevated voice to repeat what he said.” I said so what happened? My grandson stated, “ He kinda hesitated, then he fumbled his words and made fun of me Assiniboine in the same words or tone.” I said How did you refund after that? He said to me” I just looked at him for a second and turned away and walked off.” The he said that “the other kids began to look at the kid doing the bullying, wandering why he just let me walk away.” I asked my grandson how did that make you feel? He said, “ At first I was embarrassed, then I was mad, but after I did what you said I felt better and in control when I walk off.” I had mixed emotions about this, I hated that he was expressing himself and at the same time being bullied, but also that he stood his ground. But here happened next was all worth it. The next day my grandson went to school and several boys came to him and began to ask him about his clothes and his shoes and where he got them from. There girls asked him to sit with them at lunch. And some kids went to the teachers and told them what happened and that kid was suspended from school. But the real ending is this ,my grandson went to the school principle and asked that that kid not be suspended because obviously was not raised right or given the opportunity to dress better and that he would like to be friends with him and help him.
OOTD-CW - 20 April 2026
CW = Critiques Welcome! Four meetings today, all internal. My main focus for today is to help my teams move our projects forward as I will be meeting with our largest client for dinner soon. It's always wise to knock their socks off before showing up. On the sartorial stage, I did get to some shoe care this weekend. It's still a learning curve, but I went all the way to a poorly executed mirror shine on the toe cap of my wholecuts. My oft worn brown AE oxfords also needed some TLC so I nourished, polished, and waxed these guys. Sadly, two pairs in one weekend is a record! Finally, after getting another navy blazer that fit well out of the box (sleeves on the shirt are too long, but the jacket sleeves are great), I wanted a traditional Americana outfit. Theme: 🇺🇸 Classic American Style • Odd Jacket — DOJ-010 (Ralph Lauren): A navy wool blazer with gold brass buttons—the quintessential American classic. This single-breasted 2-button jacket features rope and padded shoulders, high & moderate armholes, small notched lapels, and a single rear vent. The full polyester lining in solid navy ensures clean lines, while the four gold wrist buttons complete the Ivy League aesthetic. An excellent fit rating (5/5) means this piece anchors the Classic American look with confidence and polish. • Shirt — DS-044 (Charles Tyrwhitt): A crisp white non-iron poplin dress shirt with French cuffs and a semi-spread collar (5" spread). The slim-fit cotton construction offers clean, all-American simplicity—there's nothing more timelessly American than a white dress shirt paired with a navy blazer. High stitch density (5/5), soft hand, and medium opacity make this a boardroom-ready foundation. The square-edge French cuffs add executive refinement while remaining appropriately understated for the classic aesthetic. • Undershirt — US-001 (True Classic): A white cotton-polyester blend crew neck undershirt with light drape. The snug-but-comfortable fit provides excellent coverage under the white poplin without any show-through risk—essential when the dress shirt is your canvas of American tradition.
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