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This Stops Being About Clothes
There's a shift that happens for some men. They stop asking "does this look okay?" and start knowing. Not because they memorized rules — but because they've built a standard for themselves. A quiet confidence that doesn't need to announce itself. You see it in how they walk into a room. In how people respond to them before they say a word. In how much mental energy they have left for things that actually matter. That's not style. That's identity. And identity isn't bought — it's built, through consistent habits and deliberate choices made over time. That's what RMRS Premium is designed for. Not trends. Not outfit grids. A structured path to becoming the man who looks sharp because of who he is — not what he's wearing. If that shift sounds like something you want, the door's open: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/plans
This Stops Being About Clothes
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I'm getting photos sorted for my dating profile, what's the view on my outfit? I'm aiming too look intentional, composed and in motion
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OOTD - Monday 1 June
I was all ready to start work today, then my wife told me it was Reconciliation day, a Public Holiday in the ACT. We live right on the boarder of the ACT and NSW and my office is in the ACT and I live in NSW. To go along with that one daughter goes to High School in the ACT and the other to Primary School in NSW. This just throws me all out whack at times, but hey Atleast I look good doing it. Todays outfit consists of; Oxford Woolrich Roger Overcoat in Camel M.J. Bale Martello 3-Piece Suit, tailored to a Regular Fit in a sand base colour with a navy pinstripe. Ideal for smart-casual occasions. M.J. Bale Cornelis White Shirt, woven from 100% cotton in a dobby weave Cambridge Paisley Cappuccino Tie OTAA Spiculus Tiger’s Eye Gladiator Helm Bracelet White Howlite is a stone Bracelet Aladdin Socks in a Maroon with Yellow characters and decoration Ecco Vitrus Penny Loafer SOTD - JPG LeMale Parfum WOTD - Tudor Royal 41 with Silver Dial
OOTD - Monday 1 June
Double Breasted 3 Piece Suit Question
Hello Gentlemen I am planning to get a MTM 3 piece double breasted suit. I know this may seem like an obvious question, but should the vest also be double breasted? I would imagine it would be, but I'm just thinking of the visual and wonder how much of the best you would actually see. Also, has anyone had any experience with suit shop? They have some nice tweed suits, but I'm not sure of the quality. Thanks for your input
That One Fashion Comment I'll Never Forget
This title won out over "Do Your Clothes Match Your Persona?". As I dress for the day, or the event I try to imagine what I would look like to someone else as I'm wearing the clothes I choose. Do the clothes I pick match my personality and life? Or do I look like a left-over Miami Vice cast member? (Nothing against Miami Vice!) It brings me back to a car sales position many years ago. I had moved to Seattle and that afternoon had a sales job at Downtown Oldsmobile. I had no business clothes so I went to a local thrift store ran by a hospital where the docs would donate their clothes. I hooked a couple of sport coats and slacks for little money, I was set. While at the dealership the owner's son befriended me. He was just 16 and a great, clean cut kid. One day we had a maintenance job so I showed up in my old ratty jeans and a t-shirt. The kid acted confused and quiet around. Finally he quietly said he liked me better in my suit. I looked like just another person off the street in my grubbies. In my sport coat I was presentable, honest, and trustworthy - my true personality and what I strive for. He was seeing a fake me and his honesty shown brightly through. So now every time I question whether to dress up even a little, or slob it out I remember that kid, and his point-on lesson of what clothes fit my personality. A simple but heart felt comment I will never forget.
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