You could say I've seen a few things over the years in my career.
- I've broken up physical fights between students,
- I've had flowers and wine delivered to me from parents as a thank you for teaching their child.
- I've had police contact me because a student is listed as a missing person and hasn't been seen for days.
- I've received hugs from students at the end of the year (and I'm not a hugger at all with students!),
- I've been vomited on, sworn at and threatened verbally.
- I've had school refusers respond to my modified timetables and work loads with success and return to school full time.
- I've gone up against school Principals to overturn or back down on a decision against a student.
- I've referred parents to the esafety commissioner to take down inappropriate images of students.
- I've protected students from their parent/s.
- I've seen a few pregnancies and helped discreetly with whatever decision was made.
- I've made numerous mandatory reports.
- I've suggested students take out AVO's and intervention orders against other families.
- I've given my lunch to a hungry student more times than I can remember.
- I've had students deal with death and grief, not only of a family member, but also of another student in the school.
- I've had students with anger management issues, come and find me in my classroom right before they were about to punch someone, because they remembered my words and request.
- I've had students with anxiety, request to be in my class, because I make them feel safe.
- I've taken on more students that I should in my classes because "I can handle them."
This list is not exhaustive. Every job has it's issues and pressures.
Just know that behind every post I make, every podcast episode I record and every piece of advice given for free in my community; is delivered with 20 years of experience and possibly someone else's child in mind that I've dealt with, in a similar situation.
Some days are better than others, but when we lead with connection first, everything turns out as it should. ๐ฅฐ