Gents I need some advice. I'm torn between two pilot watches and I need some help deciding. I really like the Big Pilot 43 (the one below on the right with the strap). The problem is that it comes in at 43mm and I have fairly small wrists. I also would get it on a bracelet, not the strap as pictured. So my option is to then get the Mark XX (below on the left). I'm not crazy about the date window and I really like the oversized crown on the 43. My question is how do you feel about a slightly oversized watch?

Forgot to share this with you all (the end of last week turned into an auto repair cluster...) On Tuesday January 6th I hit a major milestone. I've now lost 200 pounds since August 23rd 2024.

Gents, before we move too far into 2026, I want you to pause and look back intentionally. 1️⃣ Last Year Wins What’s 1–3 wins from last year you’re proud of? Doesn’t have to be massive. Progress counts — consistency, discipline, better decisions. Style upgrade you stuck with? A fragrance you finally made your signature? A watch milestone, collection refinement, or learning moment? A habit you strengthened, a distraction you cut, or a standard you raised 2️⃣ This Year’s Focus What’s 1–2 goals you’re deliberately committing to this year - not wishing for, but committing to? Could be... Sharpening your personal style as a form of self-respect Building a tighter, more intentional fragrance rotation Becoming more educated, patient, and disciplined with watches Showing up with more consistency - physically, mentally, and professionally Raising your standards in how you present yourself to the world Drop your wins and your focus below. Let’s build on what worked. And cut what didn’t!

We've all heard that metals should match metals. Thus, a stainless steel watch shouldn't be worn with a blazer, gold-rimmed aviators, and gold rings. Given that many watches incorporate some gold into their design, where is the crossover point for acceptability? Is gilt on the dial, indicies, and hands, like the Black Bay 58? A two-tone watch that has gold prominently on the bezel and bracelet (if applicable), like the Datejust? Or is a fully gold toned/plated/actual gold watch required, like the PRX? Or are watches exempt from the rule altogether?

OK, so by introducing yourself you are guaranteed to get to level 2 - it's really that easy and I LOVE learning more about the cool people in this group. Feel free to share where you're from, why you're here, what you do for a living, and what you like about style. Are you a watch guy, suit guy, fragrance guy, or maybe just getting started? Have fun here!