Something you need to know about toilets....
This is for you @Mimi Ramsey 📣 “Mom, something is wrong with my toilet!” I grew up under the tutelage of parents who were firm believers in DIY. If something broke, you fixed it. If you didn’t know how, you learned. By the time I was a teenager, I had at least an apprentice‑level understanding of most of the trades. So naturally, when I had kids, I started teaching them the same skills. But adulthood has a way of shifting the math. I eventually realized that DIY wasn’t always the most productive, or the most cost‑effective, use of my time. Calling a handyman often made more sense. Still, all those years of learning mattered. When I did call someone, I knew what the problem was. I knew the difference between “replace the flushing mechanism” and “you need a whole new toilet.” That knowledge protected me from being upsold, misled, or overwhelmed. But my kids weren’t growing up in the same circumstances I did. They were busy. I was busy. And I found myself wondering: How do you teach someone to know whether they need a plumber, an electrician, or just a $20 part from aisle 14? So on this particular day, when my daughter announced her toilet crisis, I slipped right back into DIY mode. We assessed the situation. It was the flushing mechanism. A simple fix. Off to Home Depot we went. An hour later, after instructions, explanations, and a few “pay attention” moments, the toilet was working perfectly again. ☎️ “Mom,” she said, “why didn’t we just call a plumber?” And that’s when it clicked. You don’t have to be the one to do the work. But knowing what needs to be done gives you power. It gives you clarity. It gives you agency. It keeps you from outsourcing your judgment along with the task. Sometimes the skill isn’t in doing the repair. Sometimes the skill is in understanding the problem well enough to choose your next step with confidence.