Once you start becoming, you start to leave the old self behind but you are not sure what the new you looks or feels like. You are trying to figure out and fit in a space you have never been in before. For me it was becoming more vocal, more determined than the shy, non confrontational girl that I used to be. But I also needed to find a balance, between loud and seen. When to stand up and when to just listen. There is this pull to go back to the familiar where you knew what will happen and how it will happen, but you no longer want to be that person. People around you will also look at you differently , some will be proud of you and some just wants you to stay the same, because they don’t want to confront their own self doubt and fear. They leaned on you because it was easier than standing on their own two feet. Be kind to yourself, understand where you are at and move slowly towards who you are always meant to be. She is waiting for you. I AM becoming💖