Just curious Fromm the group. How many of you have used ChatGpt or something similar for inspiration? I have just recently upgraded to paid subscriptions to both ChatGpt and Grok in an effort to understand how they can work and how I can interact with them better so as we transition within my company I will be a little further ahead of the knowledge curve. That being said, I have been playing around with ChatGpt in helping me pick my outfits. I have spend several days showing pictures, asking opinions, giving feedback and guidance etc and it seems to do a pretty good job. It has also helped me broaden my thought process on some of my outfits, but also needs continual refinement. Today as an example I uploaded a picture of a pair of shoes that I wanted to wear and asked it to help me pick my outfit starting with the shoes and off we went. Some of the initial things it wanted to pair together (from historical wearings) were in the Laundry and not available. so it pivoted and todays outfit down to the watch was the result. I am curious how many of you have been doing the same and what kind of prompts are you using?

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Good afternoon gentlemen , There comes times in our lives that we have to balance listening and responding to different things in our lives. As we grow and learn we sometimes get this overwhelming feeling to want to give out opinions on things that we know or think that we know. Even though our hearts might be in the right place but sometimes we have to know when to listen and when to respond. As gentlemen this becomes a balancing act. Knowing when to listen and knowing when to respond. Not everything requires your response and not every situation requires your evolvement. There are many things that you might know about a situation but it might not be your place to intercede or intervene. And then there are times that we as gentlemen need to step in and get involved to prevent or deter things from getting out of control. The key is knowing when to get involved and when to refrain. One of the best way is to learn to listen so you can make a sound judgement and also knowing your limitations based on the you knowledge of the situation. I was at one point in my life I felt that I had to voice my opinion on everything whether it was asked for or not and did not care. Then there was times I felt that I knew what I was talking about and therefore my opinion matters. But here’s the thing about knowing or thinking that you know “ with great power comes great responsibility,” if you feel the need to intervene into matters that do not directly affect you and you want to get involved and voice your opinion you need to be ready to take responsibility for what happens from that. Now, I am not saying that if someone is being hurt that you should not get involved and voice, absolutely get involved and stop it. What I am talking about is getting involved in matters of relationships, other people’s personal lives. And one of the most dangerous things is when you do not listen and get all the information before you voice your opinions on something. I recently seen a marriage that was destroyed because a person decided to get involved in matters that did not concern them, and because they thought that they knew the whole situation, and bases on what they heard and was told, they thought it was important enough to go to the spouse and give their thoughts on what they thought was going and and their opinion on how they should handle it.