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This Stops Being About Clothes
There's a shift that happens for some men. They stop asking "does this look okay?" and start knowing. Not because they memorized rules — but because they've built a standard for themselves. A quiet confidence that doesn't need to announce itself. You see it in how they walk into a room. In how people respond to them before they say a word. In how much mental energy they have left for things that actually matter. That's not style. That's identity. And identity isn't bought — it's built, through consistent habits and deliberate choices made over time. That's what RMRS Premium is designed for. Not trends. Not outfit grids. A structured path to becoming the man who looks sharp because of who he is — not what he's wearing. If that shift sounds like something you want, the door's open: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/plans
This Stops Being About Clothes
That One Fashion Comment I'll Never Forget
This title won out over "Do Your Clothes Match Your Persona?". As I dress for the day, or the event I try to imagine what I would look like to someone else as I'm wearing the clothes I choose. Do the clothes I pick match my personality and life? Or do I look like a left-over Miami Vice cast member? (Nothing against Miami Vice!) It brings me back to a car sales position many years ago. I had moved to Seattle and that afternoon had a sales job at Downtown Oldsmobile. I had no business clothes so I went to a local thrift store ran by a hospital where the docs would donate their clothes. I hooked a couple of sport coats and slacks for little money, I was set. While at the dealership the owner's son befriended me. He was just 16 and a great, clean cut kid. One day we had a maintenance job so I showed up in my old ratty jeans and a t-shirt. The kid acted confused and quiet around. Finally he quietly said he liked me better in my suit. I looked like just another person off the street in my grubbies. In my sport coat I was presentable, honest, and trustworthy - my true personality and what I strive for. He was seeing a fake me and his honesty shown brightly through. So now every time I question whether to dress up even a little, or slob it out I remember that kid, and his point-on lesson of what clothes fit my personality. A simple but heart felt comment I will never forget.
Ironing and The Playoffs
Sunday is Ironing days for me. What's not more relaxing that preparing clothes and watching the Spurs V Thunder Gm7
Ironing and The Playoffs
New Sports Coat
I have retired to brown houndstooth sports coat. I probably wore it 300 times. Here is my new everyday sports coat. In navy, seen over a navy t-shirt and indigo jeans. A dark pocket square adds a subtle touch. Let's see how this pairs up in other outfits through the week.
New Sports Coat
New Summer Sports Jacket
First airing of my new Brooks Brothers sports jacket for summer. Unlined. 38% Cotton; 33% Linen; 28% wool. Altered to fit by my tailor, Juan Cuello at alterations.com, in Midtown Manhattan. Juan has been doing all my alterations for several years and I appreciate his good eye and steady hand. Photo taken at Lincoln Center during intermission of this weekend's matinee for Coppelia, danced by the New York City Ballet. Lavendar shirt and wool pants from Brooks Brothers; shoes from Crockett & Jones. Coffee cup from the theater snack bar.
New Summer Sports Jacket
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