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This Stops Being About Clothes
There's a shift that happens for some men. They stop asking "does this look okay?" and start knowing. Not because they memorized rules — but because they've built a standard for themselves. A quiet confidence that doesn't need to announce itself. You see it in how they walk into a room. In how people respond to them before they say a word. In how much mental energy they have left for things that actually matter. That's not style. That's identity. And identity isn't bought — it's built, through consistent habits and deliberate choices made over time. That's what RMRS Premium is designed for. Not trends. Not outfit grids. A structured path to becoming the man who looks sharp because of who he is — not what he's wearing. If that shift sounds like something you want, the door's open: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/plans
This Stops Being About Clothes
OOTD-CW 10 April 2026
It's been a fantastic week at the office. The only downside is spending more of my day on management and less on the scientific client work we do. That said, I would not change our trajectory for anything. I told my AI app to have fun with the write up today. Let's see how that goes! "Cashmere & Cream: Friday Luxe in Beige" What a week it's been! And what better way to close it out than draped in cashmere, wool, and a color palette that whispers "effortless sophistication" while shouting "I'm ready for the weekend." Today's internal meetings called for polished comfort—this John W. Nordstrom cashmere blazer answered with aplomb. • Blazer — DOJ-002 (John W. Nordstrom): A beige cashmere single-breasted blazer with brown horn buttons and a full gray/brown lining—pure Nordstrom old-school luxury. The notched lapels and dual rear vents give it a classic American silhouette, while the cashmere drape feels like wearing a cloud. The slash chest pocket and inner pockets (two chest, one business card) keep everything organized. This is a big investment piece from pre-2019 that elevates every outfit it touches. • Trousers — SL-017 (Bachrach): Heavy virgin wool herringbone slacks from Bachrach—American-made with serious presence. The hook & bar closure with button tab, slanted front pockets, and two rear button pockets give these a heritage feel that pairs perfectly with the cashmere blazer. The dark brown herringbone weave creates beautiful visual depth against the beige jacket. • Shirt — DS-013 (David Donahue): A purple gingham David Donahue dress shirt in soft cotton with mother-of-pearl buttons—my Friday Rule pick with zero wears since September 15, 2025. The semi-spread collar (5.66" spread) frames the tie beautifully. This shirt has been patiently waiting for its debut, and today it finally takes center stage against that gorgeous beige cashmere. (ACTUALLY, THIS SHIRT WILL BE RETIRED TODAY. NECK IS WAY TOO BIG AND THE ARMS ARE TOO SHORT) • Undershirt — US-008 (Pro Club): A heavy-weight tan Pro Club crew neck that disappears under the purple gingham while adding warmth for the mild 65°F spring day.
OOTD-CW 10 April 2026
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English country meet Merica Country
On a rainy Friday I need to drop off some Boy Scout friends of Scouting Pledge cards. English: Barbour waxed jacket Charles Trywitt shirt CLARKS rubber soles navy Derby shoes* *or are they Aussie? Merica Filson waxed hat Harold’s tie Levi’s 501 button front shrink to fit Pendleton socks Orvis watch* Probably half of all this stuff was made in China or somewhere else in Asia or Latin America anyway
English country meet Merica Country
Brian went shopping
In the two years I’ve been in this community I had only purchased one coat and two pair of trousers (plus some CT shirts and one tie). Most of what I’ve posted is quite old clothing. But as I am settling into a more desirable weight I broke down and followed my budgeted purchases which takes advantage of the seasonal sales. Since I need some tailored clothing that will actually fit I added some items to the closet. On a trip to Oklahoma City about a month ago I caught my friend Steve Giles of Stephen Giles Clothings clearance sale up to 60% off and got two pair of trousers and a very light weight fall jacket. My mother happened to be in OkC yesterday and picked them up for me and dropped them off about 10 O’clock last night and I thought that might work so as not to wake my wife as I slugged off to my early morning men’s group. Maybe a little late in the season for the coat but I had to try it out. https://stevengilesclothing.com •Sid Mashburn vicuña colored herringbone • Samuelsohn tan trouser • CT white French cuff shirt • silk pocket square • O ring belt • Pendleton socks in clay • Cole Haan Waxhides (1982) • antique shamrock cuff links • Ernest Borel automatic watch (1940’s)
Brian went shopping
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