Fat Boy Slimming #1 - The Fit
When deciding to level up my style game, it was almost through necessity. I was (and am) on a weight loss journey, and had hit the midpoint-plus mark when literally all of my existing clothes no longer fit my shrinking frame. I needed a new wardrobe, completely and entirely, so why NOT shape it with intent and chase a New Me? I came to Skool, joined style groups. Looking to learn, but also to inform. My journey, to me, seemed intriguing, unique. Iâd have Opinions, and Insights, and Things To Say. Turns out that EVERYONE is seemingly on the exact journey as me. Iâm not a special snowflake. But thatâs great! I can still share what Iâve learned, so those on the first steps can benefit from the mistakes and decisions Iâve made. So this is the first post in a series that will share my knowledge of the âglowing-up while sizing-downâ process. Hopefully itâll prove enlightening. #1 - Clothes That Fit Are Very Tight. At my largest, I topped 20 stone. Iâm short too, so those factors combined into making me largely spherical. And, as a fat man, I leaned into the trope of the Baggy Fit, believing that an oversized jumper would convince the world I was a closet waif. Ridiculous, I know. It was a jumper, not an invisibility cloak. Iâm almost 7 stone down from those heady heights, with another couple to go, and my learnings from groups such as these have driven me into clothes that are more stylish and suited to my frame, and clothes that actually fit me properly. And BOY, do they feel tight and restrictive. There are a couple of factors to this. The first is that yes, the fits Iâm choosing now ARE a little snug. Because Iâm still shrinking, so Iâve chosen clothes with a modicum of future-proofing in this regard. When I hit my ideal size, the gloves will come off and Iâll be exacting in the dimensions. But the second and most important factor is that while the head can do the maths, the heart still believes Iâm as big as I ever was. And after literally fifty years of comfort and expanse, thereâs a little rebellion against the new slimline casements. How can I wear something so form-fitting?! People will notice how fat I am!!