Here is the video from yesterday's weekly training where I outlined The Qualities of the Mature Masculine and a new opportunity for members, which I’ll be running this October, working alongside my friend and fellow coach Charlie Webb. - Starts: Wednesday 21st October - Time: 7pm UK / 2pm Eastern - Where: Zoom - Format: Six live sessions across seven weeks, with an integration week in the middle - Investment: £200 / approximately $265 USD This course goes a little deeper into something at the heart of the Marriage Recovery System. When your wife has checked out, pulled away or separation is on the table, it’s incredibly easy to become caught in fear - trying to fix, chase, force an outcome or find the right thing to say or do. But the deeper question is not simply “What do I need to do?” It’s “Who do I need to become to navigate this?” Across the seven weeks, we’ll explore six qualities of the mature masculine: - Presence - developing the awareness to notice what is happening within you without immediately reacting from it. - Relaxed Confidence / True Will - building the inner support to stand on your own two feet emotionally and trust that you have what it takes to navigate this. - True Strength - learning to lead, take initiative and hold boundaries without becoming aggressive, defensive or controlling. - Masculine Stillness / True Power - developing the capacity to stop compulsively doing, fixing and analysing, and remain grounded in uncertainty. - True Compassion - learning to meet your own fear, grief and vulnerability without shame, while remaining open to your wife’s experience. - Joy - rediscovering lightness, connection and a life you genuinely enjoy, even while navigating a very difficult period. This isn’t about learning six more ideas intellectually. The work is about developing the capacity to embody them. We’ll use live teaching, meditation, deep inquiry, breakout work, journaling and work between sessions to explore where these qualities already exist within you, what gets in the way of them, and how you can bring more of them into your life and relationships.