Desi Women’s have Excuses- Day 25
Sehri:
~200–250g yogurt,
1 paratha with eggs,
1 sandwich,
2 boiled eggs,
1 cup chai.
Iftar:
Cream fruit chaat + some dates,
Chicken + veggie high-protein salad with some rice,
1 pakora.
Pre-workout:
Black coffee ☕
Post:
Shawarma bread wrap with ~100g chicken.
Water intake today was low — felt real thirst and slight disconnect / laziness in body.
Overall day: meals done, but energy and hydration could be better.
Today’s Perspective (Especially for Mothers & Women in the Community)
I keep hearing one common line:
“We can’t focus on ourselves because our priority is children and family.”
Let’s challenge this mindset — respectfully, but honestly.
Improving yourself daily
is not selfish.
It is the biggest investment you can make for your children.
Learning something new —
whether it’s finance, parenting psychology, Quran understanding, health, technology, or even basic business awareness —
directly upgrades the environment your child grows in.
Children don’t just learn from what you teach.
They learn from who you become.
A Hard Question
If a father goes out and earns for the family…
What is the intellectual and personal growth investment happening at home?
Caretaking is important.
Love is important.
Emotional presence is important.
But mental stagnation is not parenting.
In today’s world:
• Technology is changing
• Social problems are changing
• Career paths are changing
• Mental health challenges are rising
If a mother is not evolving,
how will she guide a child in a world she herself doesn’t understand?
Real Parenting Is Not Just Protection — It Is Preparation
Over-pampering creates dependency.
Awareness creates resilience.
A strong mother doesn’t just feed and protect.
She educates, observes trends, manages resources, understands finance, and builds decision-making ability.
You don’t need to run a business.
You don’t need to become an influencer.
But you must never stop learning.
Even 30 minutes a day can change:
• How you manage money
• How you handle your child’s emotions
• How you guide their career
• How you respond to modern challenges
Counter Thought
If someone has truly taken action —
they usually find a way.
If someone hasn’t taken even the first step —
they usually find an excuse.
Motherhood is emotional, yes.
But resilience must also be taught.
Because the world your children will face
will not be soft.
Would love to hear honest counter perspectives from you.
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