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B.A.R. - What to do when the old identity starts to “fight back.”
Your subconscious is not trying to hurt you. It’s trying to keep you safe inside with what feels familiar. Right now, you are standing between two versions of yourself- - The old version that believes, “I always fall back.” - The new version that is learning, “Maybe I can become someone who keeps the results.” This is where B.A.R. becomes powerful. Belief leads to Actions leads to Results Most people think results create belief. But long-term change works the opposite way- 1. Belief changes first 2. Belief creates different actions 3. Repeated actions create new results 4. Results reinforce the new identity Your challenge right now is not weight loss, food, or exercise. It is identity transition. What’s Happening in Your Brain? The brain likes patterns. If your history has been- - Lose weight then regain - Start strong then stop - Feel hopeful then feel defeated Then your subconscious has built a “story” that says- “This never lasts.” That story becomes familiar. And familiarity often feels like truth, even when it isn’t. What we Need to Understand The voice you hear is not reality. It is memory. Past evidence is speaking louder than present progress. FitnHealthy Forever - Practical Way to Change Your Thinking 1. Separate the Voice From Yourself Stop saying- “I am failing.” Instead say- “My old pattern is speaking.” This creates distance. You are not the thought. You are observing the thought. You become the observer of your Thoughts. This is super powerful! 2. Create Evidence Daily The subconscious changes through repetition. Ask yourself daily- - What did I do today that matches my future self? - Where did I prove consistency? - What small promise did I keep? Tiny wins matter. Your brain needs regular proof. It's in "training" to ,just like your Body 3. Shift From Outcome Thinking to Identity Thinking Instead of- “I hope I keep the weight off.” Change to- “I am becoming a woman who protects her health.” Identity is stronger than motivation. Way more powerful!
B.A.R. - What to do when the old identity starts to “fight back.”
The Drink in Your Fridge That Acts Like Alcohol - Without a Drop of Booze
Most people think liver damage only comes from alcohol. But newer research suggests that high amounts of fructose (the sugar often found in sweetened drinks and processed foods) may stress the liver in a surprisingly similar way. Here’s what’s happening… When large amounts of fructose enter the body, your liver has to work overtime to process it. But that’s not the only issue. Researchers are now finding that certain gut bacteria may convert fructose into a toxic compound called acetaldehyde, the same harmful byproduct linked to alcohol metabolism. That means your “harmless” sweet drink or soda may be creating a similar stress response inside the body. And over time, this may contribute to- - Fatty liver buildup- think NAFLD - Increased inflammation - think pain, migraines - Blood vessel damage - think heart - Brain damage - think dementia - Poor energy production - Blood sugar dysregulation - think Diabetes - Slower metabolism - think constipation, hair loss - Increased belly fat storage Here’s the good news- Your liver is incredibly resilient. Once you eliminate the sources of the problem, it can bounce back to perfect Health. The highest sources of fructose are usually not fruit. They’re processed foods and concentrated sweeteners. Here are the biggest fructose-heavy sources- SURPRISE!!! - some of them we think of as Healthy. 1. High-Fructose Corn Syrup (HFCS) Found in many sodas, sweet drinks, sauces, flavored yogurts, candy, and packaged snacks. 2. Sugary Soft Drinks & Sweetened Beverages. Examples include sweet teas, energy drinks, sports drinks, flavored coffees, and fruit punches. 3. Fruit Juice & Juice Concentrates. Even “natural” juice can deliver a large fructose load without the fiber of whole fruit. Examples - apple juice, grape juice, fruit cocktails. 4. Candy & Sweets,Gummies, licorice, hard candies, syrups, frosting, and desserts often contain concentrated fructose sweeteners. 5. Processed Breakfast Foods. Sweet cereals, granola bars, toaster pastries, flavored oatmeal packets. 6. Condiments & Sauces, Ketchup, BBQ sauce, honey mustard, sweet pickles, sweet salad dressings, teriyaki sauce, sweet chili sauce. 7. Agave Syrup. These are often viewed as “healthy,” but they are naturally very high in fructose. Agave nectar can be 70-90% fructose 8. Dried Fruit. Because water is removed, fructose becomes highly concentrated.Raisins, dates, dried mango, dried figs. 9. Processed Snack Foods. Protein bars, “healthy” snack bars, flavored crackers, low-fat packaged foods.
The Drink in Your Fridge That Acts Like Alcohol - Without a Drop of Booze
B.A.R. - A note to myself - When My Old Patterns Start Talking
I am becoming aware of something important about myself. My old patterns are getting louder because I am changing. Part of me is afraid I won’t be able to keep what I’ve achieved because in the past, I’ve fallen back into old habits. That in itself is just an old habit. However, I understand now that this fear is not proof that I will fail. It is simply my old conditioning trying to keep me inside what feels familiar. My past is not my future. I am not the same person I was before. I am learning to think differently. I am learning to trust myself. Every healthy choice I make is building evidence that I am capable of keeping my results. I do not need to be perfect. I only need to keep showing up. The voice of my old self may still speak, but it no longer gets to make my decisions. I am creating a new pattern. I am becoming someone who follows through. I am becoming someone who protects her health. I am becoming someone who keeps the promises she makes to herself. This is not the hard part of my journey. This is the important part. This is where I stop repeating the past. This is where I build a new identity. And I am SAFE becoming this new version of myself. You can read this once. You can read it daily for a stronger, faster change. Read it before meals. You could record it and play it back to yourself for a daily "meditation" Listen or say when you wake up,in the car, on your walks, while brushing your teeth, at the gym, before bedtime. How did this feel as you read it? What really resonated? Where did you feel resistance? How does it feel becoming the NEW YOU?
B.A.R. - A note to myself - When My Old Patterns Start Talking
Myth # 22 - Eating more frequently boosts metabolism.
FitnHealthy Truth - Meal frequency doesn't significantly affect metabolism total, intake and food quality matter more. WHY This Myth is Wrong- Eating 5-6 times a day doesn't "stoke" metabolism. What matters is nutrient balance and overall energy balance. Frequent eating can actually also lead to overeating if done mindlessly. FitnHealthy How (1 Simple Tip)- Try eating 2-3 satisfying Protein focused meals today spaced 4-5 hours apart and see how your energy feels. Take your time and allow your stomach to let your brain know that you're full enough. Do you prefer frequent small meals or fewer, larger ones? Why?
Myth # 22 - Eating more frequently boosts metabolism.
Is Corn Wrecking Your Fat Loss, Gut and Immune System?
Corn is engineered to kill bugs, but no one’s asking what it’s doing to us? "Bt corn" is genetically modified to produce its own pesticide. When certain insects eat it, it damages their gut lining and kills them. Now, before we jump to conclusions, humans are NOT insects. Soooo, What happens when we consume foods that are designed to interact with the gut? We’re seeing more and more people over 40 struggling with- - Bloating after meals - Food sensitivities that “came out of nowhere” (milk, nuts, eggs, corn, what, seafood, soy, sesame) - Brain fog and fatigue - Poor digestion despite eating “healthy” And one common thread? A compromised gut lining. Also known as:Leaky Gut (increased intestinal permeability) Hang on though..... - Bt corn isn’t the only factor. Not even close. But it’s part of a bigger picture which is - - Ultra processed foods - Pesticide exposure (glyphosate & others) - Chronic stress - Poor sleep - Nutrient deficiencies All of these can weaken the gut barrier over time. So instead of asking “Is this one food the problem?”… Start asking - “What is my daily lifestyle doing to my gut?” Because healing doesn’t come from fear. It comes from awareness + action. FitnHealthy Forever Tip- Swap ultra-processed foods for whole, single ingredient options for 7 days and track - - Digestion - Energy - Bloating Your body will tell you the truth. *** Obviously your pets have guts too. Don't be "kind" and feed them inflammatory Corn. Are you allergic, sensitive or intolerant to any of these foods?
Is Corn Wrecking Your Fat Loss, Gut and Immune System?
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