I have been adopting this thought process of "Let Them". Let Them not invite you, Let Them not call, Let Them talk behind your back, Let Them do whatever it is they do. BUT then Let Me.....create my boundaries. It's really not a new concept but this tag line of "Let Them" resonates so well with me. I am finding that I am more free from worrying about everyone else, stressing about what others think so I am more restful in my day. I think in the 60's it was "Live and Let Live"