And if you donโt yetโฆ you soon-ish will. Letโs crack it together. First up, Iโve been talking about this for yonks (hmmm, that's maybe a Brit saying-thinking out loud), and it came up again in a conversation with a juicy convo with @รva Raposa (yes, she always brings those, keepin it real kinda chats), thanks for sparking back this spark btwโฆ Anyways...It totes reminded me how many of us are carrying this quietly, especially if weโve been in lots of different communities over time. Ok, full transparency because LOL at pretending otherwiseโฆ So, I was literally sat here thinking what the frick should I post in this group and how could it actually be useful or supportive to someone, instead of just posting for the sake of posting, pffft And then I realisedโฆ DUHโฆ this is one of the conversations I have ALL. THE. TIME. People telling me they donโt know what to write. Donโt know what to post. Feel like theyโve got nothing to say. Feel like nobody actually cares anyway. And honestly, if youโve ever thought any of that, youโre not broken, youโre not behind, and youโre DEFINITELY not alone. A lot of this comes from what I call POSTAPHOBIA!!!! ๐ซจ Yep, itโs a (mimi-fied) thing + yup, I have it too. It usually comes from being in loads of different spaces, all with different vibes, different rules, different expectations. Maybe youโve had posts deleted before. Maybe youโve been told โthis isnโt relevant hereโ. Maybe you shared something once and it landed weird. All of that stuff gets stored in your body and suddenly posting feelsโฆ risky AF. Uncomfortable. Like you might do it โwrongโ= internal eeeeekkk, gulp... So instead of doing something, you freeze. Overthink. Then balls to it, you do NAFF ALL, NADA, NOT A TOFU SAUSAGE. And hereโs the bit I really want you to hear. We are ALL here - in SKOOL, in communities, in groups - because we have something to share. We didnโt accidentally end up here. We might be at totally different stages, with different-sized communities, different confidence levels, different energyโฆ but weโre all here because we care about building something. A community. An idea. An impact. A business.