OK guys, last reminder. If you want the permanent $50 discount to join the Brotherhood level membership (Premium), you have 24 hours to claim it. After that, it's only available at $99/month. Not only will Brotherhood membership give you access to all the courses, but also all the private workshops and calls we've had as a group, including: - Social confidence building and authentic dating strategies - How to not care what people think of you - Nice guy recovery 7 part series - Ask Women Anything - How to stop being defensive - Applying the 3X Model in real life situations - Living by your values - Getting over loneliness - PLUS dozens of live 1:1 coaching session recordings And so many more - we do new live workshops every 2 weeks! And we have a private Skool group where you can get personal support from me and the other members. So click here to upgrade to the Brotherhood today for just $50/month. This is the last message I'll send about it. Dan P.S. The free level of membership will also expire in 24 hours, unless you contribute at least one post per month to the group. We'll start removing members who don't contribute (or pay at least $9/month) over the next few weeks.

Last week we covered the introduction to the series, the key mindset principles of authentic socializing, and how to avoid making all the mistakes I made in my early life. Coming up today: Part 2 of our Social Circle Mastery series will focus on a couple of key topics - How to create fun social opportunities without putting pressure on yourself - How to initiate with strangers without anxiety or neediness - if we have time: how to have 3X Conversations that keep going effortlessly See you there - there will be Q+A in between the topics https://www.skool.com/brojo-the-integrity-army-6491/calendar?eid=c0c5aaf645594ffeb5c1a3e586ce04e2&eoid=1781632800 Note: this is available to VIP members only - start your free 7-day trial to attend

Hey guys For the next 5 or so VIP workshops, I'm going to run a series for Social Circle Mastery - a very practical set of workshops designed to revolutionize your dating and friendships. (Hint: the strategy is the exact same for both sexual and platonic... except for the shagging). Below are the modules - we'll probably cover 2-3 in each session. Each will be followed up with live Q+A. Introduction - What the course is about Principles and Mindset - Moving from old school thinking to a completely different non-needy fram Get Yourself Together - Sorting out your shit so you don't repulse good fits Creating opportunities - Building a social life that gives you great opportunities (no apps or DMs) Initiating - How to approach and connect with new people 3X Conversations - Keeping an authentic conversation flowing without trying hard Express Interest and Attraction - How to show someone your feelings towards them Invite (Offer, Don’t Ask) - Bringing people deeper into your life (replaces traditional "dating") Go Deeper - Building intense connections that they've never experienced before Escalate Physically - Increasing intimacy with touch Integrate Into Your Life - Bringing your lives together into a relationship Set Relationship Boundaries - Protecting the relationship with respect Once recorded, this will then become a permanent paid course here on Brojo (and in Udemy) - minus the Q+A. Let's see how it goes! Comment below with any questions you want to make sure the series answers. PS. If you're not already a VIP member, join here to attend live and get your questions answered.

Hey guys The recording from last night's workshop is now available https://www.skool.com/brojo-brotherhood-2147/classroom/69942c19?md=4935f6b6b7fd412bb35774fdd31cd716 We covered how to apply the 3 phases of the 3X Model to general decision making as well as to conversations to ensure they flow, along with some practical tips on how to have charisma Enjoy! Dan

I am sure this is something we all excel at. Call it "overthinking things" or just procrastination or endless researching or being academic. I think this is probably a very common thing among nice guy types. We want to do the research. We want to learn. We want to plan things. As an engineer and software developer, these things are necessary of course. But when we apply this to all things and take it too far... we get nothing done. We become paralyzed with endless planning, even fantasizing, and never getting to the goal. I am particularly bad at this. Whether its a project I am working on and never finishing (or never starting), or some new way to manage my life, my relationships, or my health. I do the research, I think this is awesome, I get excited by it, and maybe I even start.. and then fizzle out. I'll get overwhelmed by the influx of knowledge, the cloud of ideas, or just the inertia of getting started. And then nothing gets done. Paralysis by analysis.