3d • General discussion
"Fine on the outside" - AUCTION - Would you bid $1?
I'm going to help someone be fine on the inside too.
Here's what that looks like for him:
He pitches an idea at work.
Boss says "Thanks, but we're going a different direction."
He shrugs. Walks out thinking about lunch.
No replaying what he should have said.
His mate calls. "Hey, can you help me move on Saturday?"
"Sorry man, can't this weekend" and puts his feet up to watch the game like he'd planned.
Doesn't check his phone once to see if his mate's pissed.
Wife asks how the casserole is. "It's a little salty," he says.
She scrunches her face for a second.
They start chatting about weekend plans.
No walking on eggshells.
At night, he sleeps like a baby.
Here's how it works…
Our brains get stuck in loops trying to keep us safe…
by managing OTHER people's emotions.
Planning what to say.
Rehearsing how they'll react.
Replaying what already happened.
But managing everyone like that? Impossible job.
So naturally we get stuck (and exhausted).
Turns out, the antidote to the stuckness is to be Shameless…
Then it goes away fast.
Because your brain quickly figures out there was nothing to manage.
The looping that used to last days shrinks to hours. Then minutes.
Then it just stops. Most of my clients feel that shift in their first week.
I've worked with a lot of guys who looked fine on the outside.
All 30 gave five stars. I told them to be honest.
Of course, "being your shameless self" probably sounds terrifying.
It was for me.
So we start out easy to stack wins.
We stop laughing at jokes that aren't funny.
We don't smile when we're not happy.
Small stuff that builds fast.
If enough guys want to do this together, I'll make it happen.
Bidding starts at a dollar.
Would you bid $1 to be fine on the inside too?
Even if it's not for you, just voting on the poll lets other guys in here know they're not alone in this.
Let me know where you're at:
- Fine on the inside? I'm in.
- I'm curious. Tell me more.
- Thanks, not right now.
Dan
PS. If enough guys are into this, my moderators might reach out in the DMs to find out what you're dealing with so we can make this thing as useful as possible.
Fine on the inside? I'm in.
I'm curious. Tell me more.
Thanks, not right now.
4
4 comments
"Fine on the outside" - AUCTION - Would you bid $1?
skool.com/brojo-the-integrity-army-6491
A brotherhood for Nice Guys ready to become respected men. Build confidence, learn to set boundaries, and create deep meaningful relationships.
Leaderboard (30-day)
1
+68
2
+61
3
+37
4
+24
5
+19
Powered by