Whut up everyone! I'm fairly new so I might be behind on this: I just started using Dan's AI coaching tool. It's been a FUCKING GAME CHANGER for me! I'm a keep this super short. The 2 areas I used it for are as follows: 1)How do I turn my wife on outside of the bedroom? 2)How do I stop feeling guilty when I have to give my kids consequences for breaking our house rules? Both of these sessions led to major breakthroughs. I started putting it into action immediately. No further updates right now. I plan on updating in a few weeks. Peace! ✌🏾

VALUES Goals 1. Practice radical honesty with myself and then everyone else 2. I don't try to correct people when they think certain things about me. 3. Dont laugh at jokes that I dont think are funny This is my aim today while at work.

This reminds me when I was a child when I would shy away from things because I did not know what was on the other side. Here I was six years old in the kitchen and my dad stood in front of me and said "Go play with the kids at the playground. Make some friends you'll have fun." I immediately shot back with "But daddy I'm scared. What if the kids don't like me?" He replied, "Boy go to the playground and have fun." "Yes daddy", I replied and walked out the door. As I was walking towards the playground I felt my heart pounding and then I started thinking to myself "man what if they don't like me?" I got to the playground and all the kids were playing on the swings and there were a lot of swings. I found the first free swing, ran and jumped on it and started swinging. But then I noticed that the other kids were jumping out the swing. So I got halfway up and jumped out the swing myself. That's when the unexpected happen for me. The other kids laughed and smiled and yelled at me "do it again, that was so cool!" I spent the rest of the afternoon swinging as high as I could and jumping out of the swings. I got along with the kids and they liked me and I liked them. Every time I jumped out the swing it felt like I was flying. I learned two things that day. I learned how to fly by swinging and I learned that what was on the other side of my fear of the kids not liking me was pure bliss. But I had to walk to the playground in order to find that out. I recently started implementing Daniel's goalsetting from his book The Legendary Life. I have momentum going in my life right now. But now a new problem has emerged. I feel the fear of my dream life starting to come into focus. WTF?!? 😳 This has caught me off guard. Well........... I gotta be like the six-year-old me and walk to this playground of my dreams, get on the swings so I can jump out and learn how to fly. Maybe this time too, I'll find out that making my dreams a reality can also be pure bliss.

This isn’t about guilt, it's about honesty and self respect. Your task: Reflect on last year and write three short lists: 1. Key situations or areas of life where I consistently acted with integrity 2. Memorable moments where I betrayed myself 3. Patterns I see repeating that are worth doing something about (i.e. keep or change) This isn't about judging yourself, it's about identifying gaps in your integrity that require attention. Post below: Share one uncomfortable insight you noticed about yourself. Don't defend it, or make excuses for it, or beat yourself up over it. Just observe and identify.

I see this community as a place where I can be honest about my areas I need improving and where I'm doing well. I've done social platforms and men's groups type of platforms/online communities before. I was a fraudster during that time and a hard-core liar with a severe porn addiction that was tearing my family down to the bear minimum shreds. I finally overcame the porn addiction but I just discovered a few days ago that this whole time I have been a nice guy people pleaser. It is once again tearing at the ability to keep my marriage together. That's what brought me here in the first place. This time around I'm here to be honest with myself and everyone else, while allowing myself to be held accountable to the highest levels. I'm here to grow alongside and with everyone here............ honestly this time. Let's get it everyone. 👊🏾