Ok. First things first. If you’re reading this, I’m going to make a VERY SAFE assumption. You’ve got something EPIC to deliver. Like, you KNOW it. You feel it in your bones. You’re here on Skool (hello, great taste), you’re building something real, something that actually helps humans, something you care about more than just “content for content’s sake”. You’re growing. You’re evolving. You’re in it. AND ALSO… you know the deal. You have to show up. You have to post. Start conversations. Build connections. Bring traffic in. Keep things moving. Because when you don’t, things go quiet, stagnant, dusty AF, and no one wants that vibe. BUT HERE’S THE BIT MANY PEOPLE SKIP OVER (DUH). There’s this awkward, uncomfortable, messy little MIDDLE GROUND that sits between “This is who I am and what I do” and… “I’m confidently out there, visible, posting, selling, connecting, WOOPING.” And honestly? That middle ground is where MOST PEOPLE GET STUCK. It’s full of doubts. Tiny niggles. Half-formed thoughts. The stuff you don’t put on your main feed. The stuff you wish you could just say out loud to someone without feeling like a numpty. THE MESSY MIDDLE LOOKS LIKE THIS. You want to comment on someone’s post but freeze because you don’t know how to word it. You’ve got an opinion but worry you’ll sound stupid, annoying, too much, or totally wrong. You don’t want to come across big-headed, but you also don’t want to sound flaky or unsure of yourself. You don’t want to interrupt. Or dominate. Or be SEEN too much. But you also don’t want to be invisible. OBVS. There’s the fear of being remembered for the wrong thing. The fear of being ignored completely.The fear of judgement. The fear of not being everyone’s cup of tea.The fear of peeing someone off just by being honest. So what happens? You don’t comment. You don’t post. You sit on ideas. You overthink your promo. You tell yourself you’ll do it “later” when it feels clearer, safer, more polished, more whatever Trevor…

Most women I work with don’t look stressed. They look: High-functioning. Capable. Reliable. Holding everything together. But underneath? They’re running on empty. If you’re navigating pressure, mental load, or that constant low-grade exhaustion, join us in Reframe & Rise Women. You’ll find grounded stress resets, nervous-system support, and a free 14-Day Stress Reset Workbook inside to help you reset without overhauling your life. Let’s RISE together. 💜

Between being fried from having people in the house, managing Lily’s needs, planning travel, running a business, and trying to keep my nervous system regulated, I can see how quickly things pile up. I’m not struggling because I don’t care. I’m not overwhelmed because I’m incapable. I’m overwhelmed because there are a lot of moving parts, and my brain processes them all at once. Lots of conversations and connections are happening across my spaces, and I genuinely love that. I love getting to know people, especially mums, and I love the depth of those conversations. But it doesn’t change the fact that I still have to manage my own capacity alongside it all. What I’m really seeing is that being a neurodivergent mum running a business isn’t about doing less or trying harder. It’s about understanding how your brain actually works and being honest about what you’re holding at any given moment. What helps you recognise when you’re at capacity, before everything tips over?

In a NEW POST, not here, share something you are planning to offer your community in 2026. You don’t have to give details, but give us a sneak peek into something you are excited about building. For me, I’m super excited about building out the VIP tier for the CLASSIFIEDS. Share below what you’d like to see in a VIP tier! You #SneakPeekSaturday post is a bonus one. You get to do two today…

http://skool.com/steps-to-higher-knowing-8123/about I would like to introduce you all to my new free group that I started to help anyone interested in moving beyond chaos (drama and trauma) that splits the mind and heart to be out of coherence with each other. It is rooted in my over three decades of clinical practice as a psychotherapist and my own Journey that helped me to gain self mastery. I help to gain clear ways to calm the inner self from anxiety and depressing conditions to align with their Inner Knower. This does require a spirit that is centered and balanced under the influence of oneness in union with self and others. I would appreciate feedback after you have checked out my site. It is just getting started and the few members already joining have done their work to clear past shadows or heal old trauma. Some are colleagues that have also been in energy clearing work and more of those will be onboard soon. http://skool.com/steps-to-higher-knowing-8123/about Thanks for joining if you are interested in moving into higher consciousness!🌠💗