Man Before MOA they would drive me nuts! Today, they are the most fun thing you can experience! It has turned into the ultimate tell. What change in behavior have u experienced in a whole different context since being part of this community/red pill//evolutionary psychology experience.

What would yall say in a college setting is most practical and efficient way to make the most female friends? Would it be the going out to events and meeting ppl/ talking to ppl in class and trying to invite them to things later or would it be collecting a list of instagram res and from the school using rabbit hole method? Additionally what type of “events” to invite new acquaintances make the most sense in a college setting would yall say?

I recently have been at some events were girls with MOA members were talking quite openly about MOA and it's benefits. Obviously a few drinks were on board and they were being quite chatty about the whole thing. But I have to say, I was quite surprised at the in-depth knowledge about the program that they seemed to have. And it made me think, because I don't really talk about it with girls I hang out with at all. So, it brought to my mind a question. Is it a good idea to tell your girlfriend about MOA? She might think it's a good idea at the time, but what is her attitude going to be about MOA if you guys break up later?. What do you guys think?

Having only been in the program 2 months, I’ve identified that most of us all have the same struggle. We are over-thinkers, egregiously. And because of our habit of staying in our own heads, we have many of the same issues, one of which is being socially uncalibrated. For those of you who haven’t taken action in the program yet, I implore you, #1 Suspend your disbelief (shut off the over-thinking part of your brain). #2 Implement action (speed of implementation). We are prone to NEEDING to know all the information and answers BEFORE taking any action, but that’s not how men learn best. We learn best by doing. It’s in the pursuit of implementation that you will acquire calibration. I could be off, but I believe one of the biggest reasons we over-think and NEED all the information/answers, is because we all fear failure. Somewhere early in life, we developed the core belief that failure defines us. Out of that core belief we pulled all the stops to ensure we never experience failure. Have you heard the saying, that which you most need is often that which you most avoid? My life started to turn around when I stopped avoiding failure, and instead saw it as an opportunity to learn. If you’re struggling in an area, it might just be that what you need is less orchestrating the PERFECT plan in your head, and more action/experience in that area. Less thinking. More action.

We talk a lot about adding skills, habits, and routines. Lately I’ve been noticing the opposite has mattered just as much. What’s one thing you stopped doing that noticeably improved your life? Could be a behavior, mindset, habit, relationship dynamic, or time sink. Not looking for theory, just real-world changes that actually stuck.