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Making female teammates +initial events
With all the feedback I’ve received in previous posts it has clarified a big question I have concerning starting up with MOA and navigating recent woes in attempts.(though I’ve technically completed 2 of the first 4 steps). How should we go about making our female teammates? Cold approach at college campus, coffee shop, meetup for activities we like? Just relying on luck (with a fixed IG of course) for the girls we dm to show up an event we invite them to? If we need preselection for the ‘model level’ girls to be compliant and come out then how do we make female friends initially to get said content? Additionally, which events are we taking these new found female friends to and how do we get admission, considering we have zero leverage/trust at first with host and it doesn’t mean shit to a host if we tell them we can bring girls to their events (at least in my experience as I’ve tried with 3 events - fashion shows, nightclub parties etc)? Are we paying for everyone’s tickets in this case?
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@Yingdi Liu Thanks this cleared a few things. i mentioned events as michael says to invite the girls to high status events so i was wondering how to get access besides paying for tickets? Im assuming you're trying to say that the high status events dont matter?
Successfully getting a group out
this is my 3rd time trying to assemble a group for someone else’s event (a pretty popular fashion show in the city amongst upcoming models) I got 20 confirmations but like 1 showed up (the rest flaking with excuses). The one that showed was actually already on guest list for the show and was there before me. Made me think how do you actually go about actually being able to walk in to an event with a bunch of girls and have them actually like be your guests rather than just in the same room sort of thing? Also I’m going to most of these events by myself so do you guys suggest just being social and meeting people there? Whats the best way to break rapport at these events?
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@Samuel Taiwo I agree with you. My question IS how to get the female friends for the preselection photos.
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@Samuel Taiwo student but I also work. I see. So you’re suggesting I reverse engineer where the attractive women are and become a regular and start striking convos. And keep testing for which environments are the best.
Suspension of disbelief + Speed of implementation
In addition to my previous post concerning getting a group out successfully, I was wondering if there’s in between steps that may have been missed when conducting first 4 steps of MOA with this fashion show I just attended. I had an event lined up, I sent out invite and got confirmations, no one shows so I attend by myself and tried to meet other creatives and got instagrams. Is this what MOA is about? Just trying and failing (going to these vents yourself) until one day the girls actually decide to show? I feel I’ve suspended disbelief and implemented the protocols swiftly but at this point I feel there may be a gap in knowledge, unless this is the true MOA process. Additionally, I had no leverage with this fashion show host so I bought a few tickets (expecting the female guests) but no luck with guests this time(and money lost). Feel free to add any thoughts you have in the comments.
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@Ids Boonstra ok so I need to “grind” networking and opening people at events essentially?Also for the odds of meeting a friend of a host we’d have to talk to pretty much everyone at the event at that point, no? It does in fact sound like it would take quite a while to build up to a point where you walk into an event and a bunch of guys already know you. Michael says MOA is possible in college as a student, but this sounds like a method where you need to be based somewhere (like a hometown) for a while. Maybe I’m overestimating how much effort it may take. lmk.
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@Ids Boonstra I understand. So what would you recommend as the next PRACTICAL steps for me in terms of building these female teammate's (obviously besides ‘building more social skills’) ?
Weekends
I have a bad habit of not doing anything or going anywhere on weekends. I usually play video games the entire weekend and watch college football when it’s in season. When the basketball team I coach is in season (Feb-July) I have games to go to, but I don’t do anything when I’m not in season. What do MOA do on weekends? I live a boring life and I need to start doing things, but I’m not sure what to do. Any suggestions?
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@Kevin Davis that going out alone insight you dropped there is pretty good
Meeting up at event
How do you guys go about arranging how you meet up with the girls you invited out to events? Do you try and meet outside or inside of the venue?
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@Kevin Davis it’s not 1 single girl though. I guess logistics might be different for dinners
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@Kevin Davis I don’t know if everyone has to walk in together though as @icewhite has mentioned
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