Having only been in the program 2 months, I’ve identified that most of us all have the same struggle. We are over-thinkers, egregiously. And because of our habit of staying in our own heads, we have many of the same issues, one of which is being socially uncalibrated.
For those of you who haven’t taken action in the program yet, I implore you, #1 Suspend your disbelief (shut off the over-thinking part of your brain). #2 Implement action (speed of implementation). We are prone to NEEDING to know all the information and answers BEFORE taking any action, but that’s not how men learn best.
We learn best by doing. It’s in the pursuit of implementation that you will acquire calibration. I could be off, but I believe one of the biggest reasons we over-think and NEED all the information/answers, is because we all fear failure.
Somewhere early in life, we developed the core belief that failure defines us. Out of that core belief we pulled all the stops to ensure we never experience failure. Have you heard the saying, that which you most need is often that which you most avoid?
My life started to turn around when I stopped avoiding failure, and instead saw it as an opportunity to learn. If you’re struggling in an area, it might just be that what you need is less orchestrating the PERFECT plan in your head, and more action/experience in that area.
Less thinking. More action.