I have mentioned a couple times in different threads that I work as a bouncer in Orange County, CA. I see the best...I see the worst. Last night, two instance stood out. 1) A guy was cold approaching several women. Not having any luck at all. Which is not unusual. The part that stood out. When one woman was leaving the bar, he yelled to get her attention. Literally ran over to her, tripping on his way. To give her his name and number that he had written on a coaster. She looked at her friends, they all laughed and threw the coaster on the ground as they left. 2) A woman was complaining that Costco needed to start selling Plan B. Because she was tired of paying $65 at Walgreens. Both of these are examples of why MOA is so important, and truly effective.

With all the feedback I’ve received in previous posts it has clarified a big question I have concerning starting up with MOA and navigating recent woes in attempts.(though I’ve technically completed 2 of the first 4 steps). How should we go about making our female teammates? Cold approach at college campus, coffee shop, meetup for activities we like? Just relying on luck (with a fixed IG of course) for the girls we dm to show up an event we invite them to? If we need preselection for the ‘model level’ girls to be compliant and come out then how do we make female friends initially to get said content? Additionally, which events are we taking these new found female friends to and how do we get admission, considering we have zero leverage/trust at first with host and it doesn’t mean shit to a host if we tell them we can bring girls to their events (at least in my experience as I’ve tried with 3 events - fashion shows, nightclub parties etc)? Are we paying for everyone’s tickets in this case?

Been quiet here for a while. But after 3 years, 20+ of my own events in different cities, and more social reps than I can count, here are 10 things that I now see as non negotiables. 1. Instagram is even more important than I previously thought. I know it's the one thing that gets repeated the most - but even that does not encapsulate how important Instagram really is. I've seen many guys ruined their reputation with Instagram and I have seen a couple that do it extremely well. It has opened many doors for me in dating as well as meeting high value men in my city, if you have not fixed your Instagram, I don't know what you're doing. Important notice: Do not get caught up in constantly thinking "ohh my instagram is not good enough yet so i cant go out meeting people..." Bullshit. I've seen guys get stuck in the fixing phase rather than doing it in parallel. 2. List building is a living document. At the beginning I invited a ton of girls, but never really dared inviting the hottest ones. The biggest realization was that the hotter the girl is the friendlier they are and the more open they are to coming to your event,. The six and sevens are usually the ones that are the less thankful and flaky. Dare to go to the top. 3. Be careful where you spend your time. The more you get known in your city the more people are going to want your time. A lot of people love talking, especially the ones that are "visionaries". This is why we don't listen to the words. Always look at what the person has accomplished rather than what they are planning to accomplish. It's fine if they are at least taking action into the right direction. 4. Compliance is the absolute social cheat code. This took me the longest to understand fully. I used to focus way too much on building Attraction rather than just gathering compliance. If you get this down, you're good to go in all things. 5. You get punished for your insecurities. The world does not reward overly shy people as Tai Lopez would say. This could not be more true. Regardless of what you are insecure about, it really doesn't matter. Most people are completely indulged in their own ego and that's OK. Do whatever you have to to convince yourself that you're good the way you are and put yourself out there. When I say punished, I mean that you are going to get left behind and people start doing things without you - simply because you don't have enough mental real estate for them, you don't get remembered.

this is my 3rd time trying to assemble a group for someone else’s event (a pretty popular fashion show in the city amongst upcoming models) I got 20 confirmations but like 1 showed up (the rest flaking with excuses). The one that showed was actually already on guest list for the show and was there before me. Made me think how do you actually go about actually being able to walk in to an event with a bunch of girls and have them actually like be your guests rather than just in the same room sort of thing? Also I’m going to most of these events by myself so do you guys suggest just being social and meeting people there? Whats the best way to break rapport at these events?

he's not even a comedian and he's made me laugh more than almost anyone else I've ever met. he's the lil boy yelling "the emperor wears no clothes!" he's the lil cousin excitedly telling you "yo man if you shit with your feet on a stool it comes out easier!!" he's done all this work, all this research, and now he's broadcasting it on socials saying "LOOK HERE THIS IS THE SHIT THAT WORKS!! WHY ARE YOU FOOLS NOT DOING THIS!!!" chef's kiss