I have a bad habit of not doing anything or going anywhere on weekends. I usually play video games the entire weekend and watch college football when it’s in season. When the basketball team I coach is in season (Feb-July) I have games to go to, but I don’t do anything when I’m not in season. What do MOA do on weekends? I live a boring life and I need to start doing things, but I’m not sure what to do. Any suggestions?

No, I'm not suggesting you marry someone. Actually, I'm against monogamy. BUT if one of your friends is in 'love' (aka : in an altered state of consciousness that makes you take some bad decisions 😂❤️) enough to still do those kinds of things, and you are invited to the ceremony and the meal afterward... bring another friend to take some pictures. I was at the wedding of one of my cousins yesterday, and they had chosen a 10k location. Too bad I was only there with my brother, who has a pregnant wife, so there wasn't much space to explore the place and take some good pictures !

Women and society will always label anything masculine as negative. Bad boy = Toxic Confident = Narcissist Romantic = Love Bombing Vulnerable = Emotional Burden Cold and Distant = Manipulative Whatever your approach, they will twist it and paint you as "The Villain," and "Toxic Masculinity." You must own your identity and let them adjust to who you are. You must have a Comply or Goodbye attitude. Women don't deviate from their standards, neither should you. Onwards Gentlemen.

Let’s get motivated gentlemen.

When I first heard this phrase many years ago, I laughed out loud. But the saying hasn’t gone away all these years later and sometimes I do wonder if men can be assholes. I can think of many incidents where I was a complete dick to somebody, or did something impulsive and regretted it. After looking through a lot of the posts, and a lot of the comments in this forum, I can see and hear the entitlement and inflated ego’s of some of the members, myself included. Toxic masculinity is just a hilarious catchphrase for calling out bad behavior so that’s why I found it funny at first, but there is some truth to it. I think there is a difference between being an asshole and having a strong spine. There is a line between the 2 behaviors and I have crossed over to the asshole side plenty of times. But now I am much better at being the strong silent type as Tony Soprano likes to put it. I am curious if you guys do self reflection and think about how you have treated people in the past. Do you consider yourself a good person? What even is a good person?