Just watched an awesome video from @Michael Sartain and wanted to share 3 lessons from it. 3 Lessons 1. Sexual or flirty behavior can sometime mean “I want attention,” not “I want you” Touching, flirting, or online chatting can be validation-seeking with zero intent to follow through. 2. Attraction grows when validation isn’t given freely When attention has to be earned through effort, consistency, or sacrifice, it carries real value. Instant validation kills polarity. 3. Many dating environments are fantasy spaces, not reality-seeking spaces Clubs, stripping, and even online flirting are often about playing roles. Trying to force seriousness too early breaks the fantasy and pushes people away. Have you also experienced women stopping showing interest once you have given them attention?

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I have heard Michael say many times that the top 1% of men are so rare that they can have multiple girlfriends. This topic is very interesting, and I see many benefits of having multiple girlfriends and not just one. So that makes me curious: do you want to have one girlfriend only or multiple?

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I am loyal to a fault. So loyal that the religion that has been a net negative in my life (assuming that I would also be saved by Christ as a Protestant), Catholicism, I keep turning back to out of an obligation to find a wife to raise children in the faith, a faith that has constantly griefed me from high school onwards against finding a wife by making me a Nice Guy and demonizing PUAs in my 20s. Anyway, my NYR amongst others is to stop dating Catholic girls. I have had it said to my face, "Pat, you are obsessed with finding a wife." Ok? As opposed to being obsessed with sleeping with as many women as possible? It's all complete mate suppression. Are there any other Christian men in here with similar experiences? Also, are Christian women, who almost definitely had sex in high school, saying they "waiting until marriage" just shit-testing men? I might make that a separate post. https://marginsofeden.substack.com/p/the-mr-collins-complex?utm_source=post-banner&utm_medium=web&utm_campaign=posts-open-in-app&triedRedirect=true